Is it normal that my girlfriend doesn't return any sex or intimate actions?

I have a pretty clear idea of what my girlfriend wants so I give it to her whenever she wants it. However, she hasn't returned or given any actions back. My drive has seriously dropped and I don't want to make her feel like a skank or a bitch so I don't say anything. Is it normal to rarely or never receive sexual activity from my partner?

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33% Normal
Based on 45 votes (15 yes)
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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    To be honest, that probably isn't a good sign. My first girlfriend rarely returned my sexual advances, and our relationship started to go down hill. She was no longer attracted to me, I suppose. Then she cheated on me with one of my best friends. I'm not saying your girl is cheating, but something is wrong. It might just be that she needs a little encouragement; maybe she feels nervous to initiate things on her own. It's going to be touchy raising the subject with her without seeming like you're demanding sex... So tread carefully, and good luck.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Drop her like a deuce.

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  • Well you picked her. If this is a big issue for you then speak to her about it. If it doesn't change after speaking to her about it then leave her if it's something that you don't want to live with.

    Wanting a partner to try and sexually please you like you try to do for them isn't saying she's skanky or a bitch, it's just something partners should aim to do generally.

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  • JoeMayhem

    all my girlfriends have been selfish when it came to sex stuff seemed unfair but I don't know if its normal or not

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  • russellnb

    Perhaps she is not a slut. Be thankful and enjoy making her happy.

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  • JessMe89

    I'm going through that now with my husband and it's causing problems, being that it's not your wife I would talk to her and see what she says and if it doesn't look like it's going to change, then find a girl that loves to!

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  • Docholiday

    I agree with the post above. You have a pillow princess. Your sex lifeel is only as good as you make it . If you care enough take the time to think about what you want and talk ;if nothing changes the ball is in your court

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  • tzrtzr125

    It seems natural for people to take. To give is only a second thought for most. Sad, but now, thats how life seems to be. Find someone who wants to give and make sure you try to give more.

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  • Short4Words

    No. There's nothing skanky about it either.

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