Is it normal that my family cant accept my boyfriend,especially my brothers?

Ive never had a boyfriend and when my family knew i got one,they cant accept him,they insult me and hurt me alot..my brother even called him and scolded him..but i know he can be my right guy

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  • It depends. Does he wear a hockey mask and sport a machete?

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  • danielud

    Is there a reason they should hate him ? Or they just hate the fact you have a bfrnd ?

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  • joybird

    There must be a reason for their behaviour. Maybe they think you are too young? What do they say is wrong with him? You need to tell us more in order for us to understand.

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  • emilydoll

    Ask yourself why

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  • You probably don't. One day you're going to wish you had listened to them. They really love you and know the pain he's going to put you through and they don't want you to hurt. But that's fine, one day you'll see ;)

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  • sanan22

    it is normal in the sense that they are maybe seeing that he's not a good person and try to do anything to separate you two for your own good. I can bet money that your parents have experienced what you are experiencing.

    it is not normal that you ignore everything they say without thinking why..unless you're 14-18 yo then that's normal too

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  • pixie_dust

    it's a very high likelihood that they are right that he is going to hurt you somehow. why do they say he's wrong for u? I bet if u dont listen to them, you'll regret it!

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  • alv1592

    As cruel as that sounds, it depends what he's like. Is he really a good guy? Are you sure of him?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    It depends on how old you are and how old your boyfriend is.

    And if you're living off of their support still.

    If you are living with them, it's not always about how much they hate you and want to ruin your life... but about how they're looking out for you... especially if your hormones are blinding you to risks or putting you in dangerous or unsafe conditions.

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  • yr boyfriend gets you brothers and all, the one who makes them happy by not doing you wrong will be the one, try not to get too upset just voice yr concerns, good luck

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