Is it normal that my ex says she wants to get back together but doesnt mean it?

Okay this is gonna be a long story but here we go: So me and my ex-gf (we broke up like 3-4 months back) were at a party the the other night and everything was fine, we were hanging out, talking, laughing, playing games and everything seemed normal. She then texts me asking if we can go upstairs and talk at some point. So I said sure and eventually we went up to the bathroom to talk. She starts asking how I've been since eveything went down and then starts asking if I've missed her. I told her I have but since we're still friends it's all good. She then starts crying saying she's been dying to get back together. I told her I didn't really think that was such a good idea but then she starts saying that she promises things will be different and she'll treat me better and things will be good. After a few minutes I finally give in cause she seemed really sincere and like she really wanted to get back together. After that I made her promise that things would be different this time and I also made her promise she wasn't just saying all this cause she was drunk. She promised and we ended up hooking up and everything was great for the rest of the night. The next day I text her and she says she doesn't remember anything from last night and that she was just saying all that cause she was drunk and she didn't really mean any of it. This was the second time within a week though that she has told me she still cares about me so I really have no clue what her deal is. One minute she's saying she wants to get back together and she still cares about me and the next minute she says she didn't mean any of that. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

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  • joybird

    Normal stupid female behaviour.

    Sound like a spoiled brat who doesn't know what she wants.

    Or, if you are considered a 'good catch' from wealthy parents - maybe she wants to get pregnant by you and have you supporting her and the baby for the next 18 years. Keep it in your pants!!

    She's toying with you for her own amusement, to say to her pals, "Told ya, I could have him back anytime I wanted!"

    Move on and forget about this childish bitch!!

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    • smitty217

      Thanks for the advice. You're right though, she's just a self-centered, back-stabbing, bitch. I'm trying my best to avoid any kind interaction with her but OF COURSE on the first day of the second semester she walks into my math class and sits right next to me...like wtf is she really that fucked up of a person? But it's whatever at this point. TREAT A HOE LIKE A HOE. Save love for the good girls.

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      • joybird

        Get up and move! Don't let her put her tag on you as her possession. Delete her number and tell her straight to leave you alone.

        You really can't be 'friends' immediately after a break up - one of you needs time to heal.

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        • shuggy-chan

          well i had both types of these, but imma go with "she is a confusing bitch and run away" i have one that keeps doing this to me too. i told her no, maybe if it happened again but not all at once, then like 2 weeks later we wherre talking/flirting and she ask if we are dating, im like," idk you know as well as i do if we are" and apperantly thats not the answer she wanted cause i didnt just say, "oh yes plz" she got all bitch mode.

          so i say run, far away

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  • Aliceee93

    Get away from her.
    Get rid of all contact.
    Make her miss you for real! She's playing you

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  • Aleks85

    She's selfish and wants you to only have love for her while she plays the field, don't fall for it. Tell her to fuck off and make her your bitch if anything. Otherwise just cut the cord.

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  • Bootygopop

    Shes not right for u. Find someone sweet to love.

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