Is it normal that my ex liked to pretend she was my gay boyfriend?

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It hit me recently that the habit of my high school girlfriend pretending she was my gay boyfriend online was rather odd to say the least. It started as a joke, but she really loved to entertain the fantasy that she was a dude and my boyfriend instead of my girlfriend. She didn't turn out trans and as far as I know has only dated other men after me. Have you ever heard of someone doing this? Was it a fetish or something?

She never dressed up or anything, but she'd talk differently and would tell people we did things two guys would do instead of things a girl and a guy would do. We only dated a few months, and all we really did was makeout. She was quite obsessed with me at one point, so I backed off. Why do you think she liked me treating her like a guy sometimes? She'd flipflop between wanting me to be her protector to wanting to protect me instead. With most people, this girl was really shy, but around me she opened up quite a bit. Do you think she might be trans, but in the closet?

BTW, she was the girliest looking girl I ever dated. She had a tiny waist and long, long hair and wore makeup and girly clothes.

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  • Freedom_
    8 years ago

    She could sense your gayness and was trying to drag it out of you...jk, but honestly it sounds like you may be a little insecure about your sexuality if it bothered you a lot. She was probably just playing around or, at the most, was entertaining the idea of gender role reversal which is a pretty common thing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      When did I say it bothered me? I just find it "different/curious". I would say you're coming off the insecure one if you'd jump right to my reaction/sexuality when it's her behaviour that's the focus of my post. My observation of the way she acted has nothing to do with who I am sexually. I thought that was pretty clear in my post. Don't purposefully dodge the point.

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      • Freedom_
        8 years ago

        I said *if it bothered you and I did, in fact, address the point of her behavior. Why would you jump too the extreme conclusion that she is trans? It's possible she is transsexual but sometimes chics just want to express their masculine side.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          You sly fox! Did you edit your first comment? I swear it was worded differently before XD

          BTW, I'm not assuming she's trans, I actually stated she "didn't turn out trans" in my first paragraph, but I wonder if maybe she was and didn't come out. It's a possibility, not a likely one, but it is one.

          I swear to God it read "since it bothers you so much" or something similar before... Maybe I'm nuts, but I don't exactly remember the end either. Should have screen capped you. lol. If you did edit it... so, so not cool...

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          • Freedom_
            8 years ago

            Go home, OP, you're drunk.

            :)

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              *eyes you suspiciously*

              are you messing with my head? i told you not to "dodge the point" because i checked to see if you addressed her behaviour at all, and you didn't! I don't remember the role reversal stuff at all.. and i remember your wording being a lot meaner too lol.. either i've completely lost it, or you're swift... reallll swift :/

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  • gloryholeflasher
    8 years ago

    Did you ever see her completely naked so that you know for sure she was a girl?

    She sounds a little unusual but intriguing. I think it could be fun to hang out with her and play along with her fantasy! Too many people have no imagination or sense of adventure regarding sex and it doesn't take long for sex to become mundane, boring. It still feels good but it's not so exciting anymore. I think this girl could keep it exciting if she had a guy who was willing to play along!

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    By any chance was she a yaoi fan? I've actually seen females that were yaoi obsessed do this with their significant other.

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Maybe she was just trying to find herself sexually, and find her sexuality. Nothing wrong with role playing. But I have never heard of a female acting how you describe here. Have you tried looking her up on facebook ?

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