Is it normal that my ex girlfriend keeps putting pics with another guy?

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hi:(
so about 5 months ago i broke up with my girlfriend who is my age. and were still in high school
and obviously she was talkin to some other guy on fb ..and i got her .. and dumped her cause i dont like these games and i don't like being cheated.
whats bothering me is that no matter how hard i try i cant forget her i love her so much. and i KNOW she loves me and i know she doesnt love that guy cause hes younger than us and cause hes a complete idiot and she knows that but everytime she knows i got back on my kik account she puts up the only few pics she has with this guy as a profile pic..im the only one that knows her kik name and so like am pretty sure that this message is for me! but her pic is sooo ugly in those pics i mean she would never put them on facebook or show them to anyone!!
i always convince myself shes just teasing me and making me jealous but its just toooo much and pointless cause i dont get jealous of this guy !!
i see people in relationships and i see ex's but i never seen this dumb kind of "making the other jealous" ..

at the moment i try so hard to keep her away from me and just..

simply..
i love her.. buti hate her.. but i love her.

is that normal.. what shes doing.. how i feel..
what can i do about it .. please its klling me.

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  • WhiteStallion
    9 years ago

    Move on dude. As you said you dumped her, remember why you did so and ignore her totally. You really shouldn't be concerned with anything she does. And you should also invest in learning to type like me ;)

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    • Cam22
      9 years ago

      Youre right, shes not worth all of this
      ill block her everywhere..
      thanks

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Try to forget about her and move on with your life. Be smart and block her on social media. Stop wondering about whether or not she's posting pictures to upset you. It's not all about you. Just let it go!

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I can see why she dumped you. wow. What were you doing when you should have been learning spelling and grammar in high school? Are you really as illiterate as your post suggests?
    Damn, fella, you are going to have a really tough time attracting any girls. Try paying a bit more attention to the curriculum and less to chewing your toe nails, when in class.

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    • Cam22
      9 years ago

      for 1 why do u have to be so harsh
      and 2 i dumped her
      and 3 i never said english was my first or even second language..

      and finally its been a 2 year rel and i dnt want to " attract" any other girls
      i want her
      but at the same time i feel she wants me and i also feel she doesnt some times but i dont know why

      people like u who comment hating and on grammar make me sick..

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        And people like you who want something from the members here, but disrespect them by writing illiterate posts mystify me. If YOU want fucking advice why do you make your post so damn hard to read and understand? Where is the sense in that? Think about it a few minutes, before you respond with another jackass comment.

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        You tell him feller! He's so disrespectful and arrogant I try & ignore his gratuitously nasty posts and he's so fucking patronising - like everyone in the world has to be literate to his standards or THEY'RE being disrespectful ..... pots and kettles there I reckon.

        I don't understand this kicking someone when they're down: most people asking for help on here are genuinely doing that, they don't need putting down and insults.

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    • Nokiot9
      9 years ago

      This isn't a fucking English essay. It's a thread board. Who gives a flying fuck who spells what like what as long as you can understand it.

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      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        As I see it it's about respect and laziness on the part of the OP.
        If someone doesn't care enough to even make the smallest attempt to communicate coherently, then why bother to post at all?
        In showing us a complete lack of self respect and literacy, he should understand that others (his ex) probably won't be all that interested in being around him. I have not met too many girls who are turned on by an illiterate guy with no self respect, have you?

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        • Ellenna
          9 years ago

          There are lots of reasons why some people are what you call "illiterate" - learning difficulties, dyslexia, brain damage, childhood trauma, second/third/fourth language and probably more I can't think of right now.

          You don't know him so how do you know laziness is a factor? Do you ever give anyone the benefit of the doubt before you judge them with little or no evidence about them?

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          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            What, other than laziness, would you call posting without proofreading? How hard is it to read what one has written before pushing the "post" button? If one is uncertain of spelling, then there are dictionaries or, golly gee, spellcheckers. To post without using the tools readily available, to make that post literate and comprehensive, is either laziness or sloppiness, inviting others to assume the OP is illiterate. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to post an intelligent post.
            I find it incomprehensible that anyone would desire to make oneself seem stupid, illiterate or ignorant, but so many seem to.
            I judge by performance, as does most of the real world, not by what might be or could be.

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            • Ellenna
              9 years ago

              I gave reasons other than laziness. Don't you ever make allowances for other people not being as smart/handsome/intelligent/informed/literate/generally brilliant as you think you are?

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      • Ellenna
        9 years ago

        I'm trying to give yr post a thumbs up but it's not being accepted so consider it sent here.

        I sometimes have a go at posters who write very long posts without paragraphing them, but only if it's a fairly trivial request. This post wasn't even hard to read with a tiny minute bit of effort. thegypsysailor is just being himself, rude & patronising and more concerned with grammar & spelling than someone's pain.

        Anyway I guess if he's sounding off on here his 42 years younger than him wife* will be getting a bit of a rest from his cranky whingeing, so that's nice for her.

        *or so he says, me myself, I have 10 lovers all in their early 20's who pleasure me day and night and worship me adoringly and I'm even older than him

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        • Nokiot9
          9 years ago

          Ok. So I'm not the only one that thinks he is a douche bag. Lol

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          • Ellenna
            9 years ago

            I reckon there's probably a long list, don't you think?

            He writes well and he's obviously quite intelligent but apart from that he's the sort of arrogant patronising bore who I can't help responding to.

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        • thegypsysailor
          9 years ago

          You know, it takes a very classless individual to bring a poster's spouse into a discussion that had absolutely nothing to do with you. It seems you are nothing but trailer trash, after all.

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          • Ellenna
            9 years ago

            Well I hope I'm classless, and I wouldn't have known anything about your spouse if you hadn't mentioned her in another thread.

            I thought all discussions on here were open to everyone? You don't get to decide that it had nothing to do with me and I don't give a stuff about your childish name calling. I don't accept that anyone has the right to classify any group of people as "trash" but I don't expect you to understand the concept of diversity and acceptance of difference.

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            • thegypsysailor
              9 years ago

              You have shown yourself to be trash; nobody had to classify you. It is you who has crossed the lines of decent behavior and not I.
              I have also mentioned my children on here; do you intend to disparage them as well? You have certainly shown yourself to be trash through and through, with no redeeming qualities. Shame on you.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    If she loved you she wouldn't have cheated on you.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Just imagine him pounding her pussy with his younger cock, that help?

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