Is it normal that my daddy said this to me?

ok 2 important things, 1 yes it's normal he said those things, he was upset. Don't be too hard on him, you told him some super shocking news and he was upset, you said in the very next email he was over it so cut him some slack, don't let one bad episode change your relationship.

2 TAKE THE MONEY! You said you could use it swallow your pride and take his help not for your sake but for the child's.

Yup. Tell him that you will feel better about yourself if you don't accept any money. Also tell him his love has always meant a lot and that you hope he still will give it to you.

While you were getting your two degrees, did you ever think about taking a class in writing? If not, think about it. Tell him you are a big girl now and you can take care of yourself. Thanks but no thanks.

Normal he's pissed, since you were knocked up by somebody you failed to even mention in your post. Your life is set towards a path of dependency at this point--rely on your dad so we aren't paying your wellfare. Your dad will always love you, so stay close. Just realize that you didn't become the woman he could be proud to call his daughter.

He should have never said anything to make you feel like a loser. You got pregnant, you didn't kill anyone! More importantly, you obtained a college education beforehand. You're far from being a loser. You should be proud of yourself for getting a great education so your child can live comfortably. My daughter means the world to me and no matter what I'll always love her and she'll always be my heart.

That is normal. After all, it seemed to me that he adored you so much. He was probably caught off guard by the news. And he most likely considered you his sweet daughter. No dad wants their daughter knocked up. Although I don't know whether the man involved is helping you care for the baby.

He changed his initial reaction because he had time to process it. Men need to process things since they are so different from us girls.

I am happy that you are having the baby. I won't say whether you should take the money or not, that is your decision. But think carefully of the child's needs which are going to grow as the child gets older. And most of all, think of yourself- job, bills and such.

if you decide that you don't want the money, I recommend saying it something like this- " thank you for offering to help, but no thanks." or something like that.

anyways, congrats on the baby!

My dad would probably disown me.

I hope your baby is black.

Hi there... I don't know you but I am so happy for you... Being a mother is the best feeling and so is being a father... I know your dad loves you and you know that more than me..

Everything is okay.. he was just shoked.. replied on impulse..

I read your replies... Your dad will feel happy while supporting you.. and his grandchild..

Wish you a happy life ahead.. hugs and kisses from me..

He had given almost everything to you, like school, vacation and what you reply to him is such a (errr idk how to say), so it's understandable that he's mad on you. Plus he's still a good daddy at all and you're so lucky because believe me, if it happened to my country, you would get nothing from your parents except rant and isolation from your family (my country hold this virginity tradition so the things like pregnancy before marriage is absolutely not tolerable)

You owe it to your dad to get an abortion. Think of all the money he wasted on you.