Is it normal that my boyfriends family resents me even though they dont know me

Does his Mother suck him off? Do you? We need more details like this.

The real question is what is HE doing about it? If he stands up to them and does what he wants to do then you may have a reason to stay in the relationship. If he bends to there will then let him go and find yourself a real man hes still a boy.

She thinks i brainwashed him because he doesn't wanna live at home and because every decision we make he asks for my input on the decision and shes all mad and says "you have your own voice" blah blah, its made me so pissed off but i haven't said anything because i don't wanna be disrespectful to his parents, i know i would blow up on them because of how much they have out me through this year, shes called me names, kicked me out of her house when i went down to stay a couple days, shes tried to get him to go out with other girls when he goes to visit and she always tells him lies like "Shes probably cheating on you.." and that kinda stuff, which he has anxiety so he freaks out when he gets home.

Mothers can be quite jealous of their sons. Although I am curious as to how she thinks you've supposedly brainwashed him. I dunno about this whore business, if she thinks you're promiscuous the proper term is slut.