Is it normal that my boyfriend wants a open relationship???!!

So... my boyfriend(were a gay couple) asked me if i would mind a OPEN relationship. does that mean im not enough?? or he just want to experience more?
or he's not interested no more?
and my opinion on it is..no thanks, not interested in other guys fucking my boyfriend. help.
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Based on 40 votes (15 yes)
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  • Short4Words

    If that's what he wants his desire won't likely change. You might have to let him go.

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  • thegypsysailor

    What it means is that he's still looking for Mr. Right!
    Time to tell the cretin to get moving, you have too much self respect to be his 'backup'.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If this isn't what you want for yourself then don't settle. There's probably someone better out there for you.

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  • DolphinAngel

    I don't see how it's relevant that you are gay/a gay couple...

    Anyway, it's not normal and you should consider to end the relationship since a question like that shows that he doesn't love you and either wants to keep looking for "the one" or simply wants to fuck other men since you're not interesting enough in bed (anymore). Either way, if this bothers you, simply talk to him about it.

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  • Blue_Velvet

    Straight or not, it goes to show that he doesn't really love you when he is willing to share you with someone else.

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    • (s)aint

      You are wrong. Some people like to invite others to their bed.

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  • Melora

    It is okay for him to ask. But you should reconsider if your ideas of relationship are compatible enough to continue being in a relationship with one another or that you both should move on to more compatible partners.

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  • one1321

    The whole thing is weird. And the relationship.

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  • Biggirlbanger

    WTF do you mean by saying perverts

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    He's already found someone he wants to fuck and is looking for a free pass.

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  • StormDriven

    Short4Words..Tsk, tsk, tsk. Any normal.. And by normal, I mean mature, person would know that quite a lot of guys wouldn't mind an open relationship. There are also a lot that wouldn't want an open relationship. I'd say its normal. Its just up to you to decide if that's what you want. I'm just saying this considering, all of the labour jobs I've had, and places i've been, a lot of perverts out there do not mind at all having open relationships. There were the people who obviously were against it but not as many as you might think. Anyways rants over.

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    • Ellenna

      Perverts? WTF do you mean?

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