Is it normal that my boyfriend talks to other girls...

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I mean I know boys are a flirt but he kinda talked to a girl just to make her bf jealous because he flirted with me okay so I asked him to stop talking to her he said okay and all was well. This was when we were in the same school but now we are in different schools but same city and he might be going to the same school my best friend(we don't talk much now since my phone broke) is going. She is pretty and friendly and they kinda know each other. Should I be worried that he might leave me for her and since I am not there he will make female friends??

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dirtybirdy

8 years ago

Oh honeychild, I understand you're young and new to the dating thing, but dont you think it's a bit immature that he talked to a girl to make the boyfriend jealous because the boyfriend talked to you? Males and females are allowed to interact. Do you never talk to other guys?? It doesn't mean you want to sick their duck, if ya know what I mean. People need to stop getting jealous so easily. And if it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world. First relationships are often a whole lot of trial and error. You learn as you go and that ok.

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  So you're asking me to trust him?
  What if he likes my friend or some other girl?
  
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  - ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    
    8 years ago
    
    Would Sansa Stark be so weak willed?
    
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    - sansastark
      
      8 years ago
      
      Haha! Little dove..
      
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chained_rage

8 years ago

I'm so happy I don't know somebody like you.
You sound controlling and manipulative.
And dry.
Very dry.
Superficial.
You obviously crave all his attention because you have daddy issues

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  Haha no I don't have any daddy issues.
  Its just that its my first relationship and I don't want it to break.
  
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Aries

8 years ago

I sense your confusion and the best thing you can do at your age is start to mature now . It will make things a lot better for you down the road when choosing a life partner . I think it was silly your boyfriend talked to the girl to make her boyfriend jealous , he should be confident , mature and trust you enough not to worry who talks to you . If you are a loyal girl and don't play into another mans attention , he should have no worry . If you are worried about him leaving you , cheating on you or being unfaithful in any scenario .. please don't . It's common at your age for jealousy to be high but think about it honey , he is going to do whatever he want's regardless of your actions so decide if he is trust worthy and let life take its natural course . If he is a good guy and wants to be with you , it will work out and he will and if not , you cant control him so why make your relationship harder by jumping to conclusions . If you notice he is actually doing things that go against your relationship values .. don't you waste on tear or bit of energy getting upset with him about it , leave and move on to hopefully find someone better . You will be a bit heart broken and upset by him being unfaithful if he ever is but remind yourself , you are young .. you are just dating and more males will come your way throughout life until you find the one .. it's a natural part of life we all have to endure . I wouldn't cause a fight , just keep an eye on things and make sure he is being a good boy but if a girl talks to him , oh well .. males and females interact naturally and it doesn't always mean something sinister .

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  Awww thank youuu :))
  May the Old and New Gods be with you!
  
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DickwaffleTheGreat

8 years ago

Talk to him about how you feel, but i am not the one who you should be listening for advice, ask people who have some kind of experience.

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  I have.
  He said nothing bad will happen, trust me
  But I'm still having problems trusting him. Its like I think if I'll trust him he'll start taking advantage of it.
  
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  - DickwaffleTheGreat
    
    8 years ago
    
    if you cant trust him i think thats the answer to your problem
    
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    - sansastark
      
      8 years ago
      
      Maybe yeah but trusting him doesn't mean we'll have a happy ending right? Problems are always gonna come but I just don't want that the problems come from his side.
      
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      - DickwaffleTheGreat
        
        8 years ago
        
        I never been in the relationship so when its comes to giving advices on that is kinda stupid, but i think if you cant trust him then you simpliy cant be together coz if you are going to question his every move every look and so on. I dont know if any of this helped so lets say it like that if you have problems sleeping coz of trusting him you are not ment to be.
        
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        sansastark
        
        8 years ago
        
        Thanksss
        
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thegypsysailor

8 years ago

It's actually pretty easy; 'If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.'

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  I can't just breakup with him like that!
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  - thegypsysailor
    
    8 years ago
    
    There just isn't a damn thing YOU can do to stop it, if he wants someone else!
    
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    - sansastark
      
      8 years ago
      
      That just made me more sad
      
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      - (s)aint
        
        8 years ago
        
        Basically; You can´t ever control another persons feelings. He might be the one for you, then again he might not.
        
        I am the jealous kind myself, it is a royal pain to deal with these feelings but what others have said; If he is the cheating or disloyal type you can not do a single thing to stop him. So worrying about it and nagging at him could, in fact, drive him away from you.
        
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        sansastark
        
        8 years ago
        
        Last line made a little sense.
        
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ucipher8

8 years ago

Well then remember that you are no one and therefore can date, anyone.

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  -.-
  
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ucipher8

8 years ago

Its ok if your jealous, i mean we can all get that way. Unless if he's actually cheating on you, then it shouldn't be something to worry about. If it feels like he;s losing interest with you, then move on girl! You aren't even old enough to drink yet are you?

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  No he's not cheating on me but he can/will....
  
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regisphilbin

8 years ago

Yes he will talk to other girls and forget all about you. Is that what you wanted to hear?

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  That's exactly what I fear.
  
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213

8 years ago

get a side guy i bet you won't worry much.

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  Side guy??
  
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  - 213
    
    8 years ago
    
    yes i think you will worry less
    
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    - sansastark
      
      8 years ago
      
      No no no
      
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sugartits

8 years ago

sit on his face show him why he liked you in the first place

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- sansastark
  
  8 years ago
  
  Wtf no! I want a serious answer please. I'm new to this relationship thing. So help me out please. :)
  
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  - sugartits
    
    8 years ago
    
    nothing makes a guy realize how stupid he's being then some good pussy assuming you two do that
    
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    - sansastark
      
      8 years ago
      
      Not everything's about intercourse. -.-
      
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      - Crusades|
        
        8 years ago
        
        You sound like the biggest prude ever. No wonder your bf talks to other chicks.
        
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        sansastark
        
        8 years ago
        
        I'm not saying he talks to girls.
        He won't but what if he does? And I won't even be there to check on him.
        
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      - sugartits
        
        8 years ago
        
        in that case id talk to other girls
        
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        sansastark
        
        8 years ago
        
        Wow
        
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