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If my boyfriend finishes before me during sex, he just stops and assumes it's over. If I cum first then it's okay, but if he does I end up unsatisfied. Although he is loving and attentive most of the time, he won't touch me sexually once he's cum inside me.
Sadly normal. I say next time you cum first throw him off and see how he likes it.
Talk to him about it, and if he's not interested in changing his selfish behavior tell him you don't wanna be intimate unless he satisfies you first. If he doesn't like it find someone better.
I always thought this was normal to be honest. Men typically stop being horny once they're finished, so for them to keep going is kinda boring. Women, on the other hand, can keep going for hours and hours. I find our horniness far surpasses our orgasms, so it's really easy for us to keep going until the guy cums.
But, I guess I wasn't aware that guys give their partners orgasms even after they have finished...
That's what you get when you take a boy for a lover. Go find yourself a man.
You always always always make sure the woman is satisfied first! No if ands or buts!!! She comes, cums? First no matter what!!
He needs to practise the art of holding the moment off until after you've orgasmed. It's only polite!
Or at least have to decency to sort you out by other means (oral and/or manual) if he comes too early.
He might have lost his boner but he's still got a tongue. Surely he knows how to use it on your pussy?
If it keeps happening, set up an interchange bench outside the bedroom and invite the next guy in to take care of business like a real man. BF has to watch.
I assume he is young. It may be considered normal however it is selfish and inconsiderate. If he cums first he needs to finsish you off..
It's totally normal for guys to orgasm faster and easier than girls. And typically after the guy cums he loses his boner and isn't horny anymore. This is basic 101 of male anatomy. It also explains why so many women fake orgasms, but ultimately it leaves most women feeling unsatisfied. So it's up to you to look out for your pleasure after he finishes his business. It's not about him being selfish, just how the male body is designed.