Is it normal that my boyfriend slapped me?

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So my boyfriend and I have been together for several months. We were cuddling and i was nibbling on his thumb, he sometimes nibbles on mine but both are for no specific reason. All of a sudden he pull back and slapped me on the arm and yelled stop! He startled me and I made that fairly obvious. He then apologized although it didn't seem sincere. This only happened the other night and he has never hit me or anything before, usually a very loving character. Is it normal? Should i be concerned?

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  • Digsbie
    7 years ago | pl

    run away as fast as u can, it will only get worse. next time will be much worse

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    • papasito
      7 years ago

      Next time it'll be a donkey punch

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    • Gummy_Jr2
      7 years ago

      Yes if he does it once and you don't react, who is to say he won't do it again but worse?

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  • Gummy_Jr2
    7 years ago

    I would have been so startled that I probably would have farted.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Have you asked him what caused the slap? An apology is fine, but I'd be wanting an explanation too.

    Presumably he didn't like what you were doing, but slapping someone for that reason is not acceptable.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    You're biting him. He's slapping you. It's all a bit animal kingdom isn't it? Things will be very different after puberty.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    In the context given, sounds suspiciously like his control over his anger is becoming frayed. You need to talk to him about this, and if he slaps you again, get the hell out of that relationship.

    "Use your words, not your fists"

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    • Exterminator2
      7 years ago

      So what do you do when your boyfriend bitch slaps you?

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        IF I had a boyfriend who bitch slapped me, I'd call you up to come collect him and his shit before the police arrived.

        I'm nice like that.

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      • Exterminator2
        7 years ago

        "Use your words, and not your fists" Where did you dig that quotation up from? That is soooooo gay.

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        • Tempest-au
          7 years ago

          I can't remember where I saw that particular quote, sorry.

          It is interesting that you are projecting your own homosexual inclinations on others. You should get together with "Ratman", I think you will get along really well! Little Ratty needs a friend, and sadly I think you do to.

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          • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
            7 years ago

            It IS Ratman! Just like fungi he is asexually reproducing in a hostile climate. Still boring as ever I note.

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            • Tempest-au
              7 years ago

              DAMN IT! You ruined it! I was going to pretend Ratman and Exterminator2 were seperate people, and suggest they form a relationship to support each other and possibly explore their mutual latent homosexuality.

              Now how am I going to politely tell him to go fuck himself! Spoilsport!

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  • Rihyae
    7 years ago

    That is scary asf. I bet if you stay with him the 5th thing he does is stab you yelling "Stop" repeatedly.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Yeah, you should be very concerned.

    You're his girlfriend, his equal. He shouldn't slap you, and yell aggressive commands as if he's training you. You're not a misbehaving child or pet.

    You're probably madly in love with him, because he did his best to be the perfect boyfriend for the first few months, but you must understand that random outburst like that are warning signs of incoming emotional abuse or worse.

    My advice would be to talk to him about how this outburst made you feel and why he simply didn't just calming ask you to stop and explained why. If he dismisses your feelings, or give you a vague explanation, you need to start thinking deeply about the kind of person he truly is.

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  • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#P1
    7 years ago

    I once slapped a BITCH in the face real hard once when we were at the beach doing 4x4 for biting me, the BITCH needless to say was neurotic and was a "cutter".

    I suppose you nibbled a bit to hard and got what you deserved, Dumbass.

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  • Curious-trans
    7 years ago

    Such kind of physical contanct outside of happy hour is never acceptable. Talk to him.

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  • Shiny_Down
    7 years ago

    You just surprised him. A lot. Probably hurt him. I wouldn't be concerned unless he hits you again.

    If I were going down on a girl and accidentally bit her clit and she slapped me out of reflex, I wouldn't assume that she was abusive.

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      7 years ago

      FUCK! What an awful thing to say!! Slap you? Two centre mass and one in the head. The Woman's Handbook chapter 11 section 5 states that quite clearly. You have to be put down immediately. No warning shot required.

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  • Hey'sForHorses00
    7 years ago

    He slapped you?!?!
    Tell you what, if my boyfriend ever laid an aggressive hand on me, I'd be gone with the wind.
    You are not a child, you are not an animal. You are a human being. You're supposed to be his equal. Next time he pulls this shit, LEAVE.

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  • raagekai6991
    7 years ago

    I don't think it was serious

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  • Dallas8
    7 years ago

    Kick him in his nuts

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    • Bluejayy
      7 years ago

      lol!

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      • Dallas8
        7 years ago

        And pull a Lorena Bobbitt and chop his cock off and throw it in the ocean so they will never be able to find it to sew it back on.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Probably bit him too hard.

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  • LittleGirl'sAnalGape
    7 years ago

    I agree with the dumbass above, you probably bit to hard. But you never deserve to be hit. Especially by a man who claims he loves you. Be careful

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Sounds like you were annoying him. Maybe you were nibbling too hard? Talk to him about this stuff. Seriously though, it's not really normal for ya'll to be nibbling on each other like tiny babies or little rodents. Maybe ya'll think it's cute, but it's very immature and infantile. Perhaps ya'll should nibble or suck your own thumbs, go buy a couple of pacifiers or quit this behavior altogether!

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