Is it normal that my boyfriend's baby's mom posted this on instagram?

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My boyfriend's baby's mom, who he hasn't spoken to in over 8 years, posted on instagram a collage of old photos of them? With the description: "Happy birthday to my bd" (baby's daddy) at 3am the morning of his birthday? Then a couple of posts later was a photo quote that stated, "ready for our future together". Keep in mind they haven't spoken in 8+ years & they broke up on bad terms...

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago | pl

    Either you are over thinking it, the baby momma is delusional, or he's talking to her behind your back in a romantic way. They don't speak at all is there no co-parenting going on?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Nope.

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        Wow. That's really sad.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          That's a whole other IIN topic, what I'm asking is the original question about her posting stuff like that....

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          • [Old Memory]
            8 years ago

            Which I answered.

            Either you are over thinking it, the baby momma is delusional, or he's talking to her behind your back in a romantic way

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Yes and thank you.

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    How does he have a "baby" with someone he hasn't seen in 8years?

    Anyone who walks away from their child is scum, anyway.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      She cheated and said the kid wasn't his... But turns out she is, and the kid has been raised by another guy she calls dad... who is her brother's dad. Anyway, keep your irrelevant comments/opinions, in which you don't know the fact of WHY things are that way, to yourself. If you can't stay on topic with my real question, then don't even put in your two cents please. And the kid isn't a "baby", she's 15.

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      • charli.m
        8 years ago

        Going by what YOU said. If you publically post on a public forum, you will get opinions.

        Why are you even following this woman on instagram if he has no contact with her?

        You sound childish.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          She had been messaging me asking me questions about our relationship and him. And told me to tell him happy birthday, when she's never done that in the last 10 years.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          She recently has been trying to talk to me and ask me questions about us or him... then she told me to tell him happy birthday which she hasn't EVER said before, and I've been with him for over 10 years.

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      • Freedom_
        8 years ago

        I was thinking the same thing, actually... Still, with the info update, you'd think he'd at least attempt to be in his child's life. This while situation sounds very immature. How old are you all?

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        • reginaFalangi
          8 years ago

          All the characters in this story sound kind of off.
          Specially the woman who'd lie to the parent of her child and then start posting photos 15 years after that.
          That is not normal. And I don't think there could be any healthy or happy relationships around this people.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Which I've tried to get him to go see her or at least talk to her on the phone or something. But I think he's really ashamed and he doesn't have anything to give to her. It's quite depressing, she she looks just like him.

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          • Freedom_
            8 years ago

            Ugh...he's a wimp. Are you sure this guy is what you think he is? He doesn't have to give her anything but a relationship, even if they just talk occasionally (that would be a start).

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