Is it normal that my boyfriend pressures me into doing him sexual favours?

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Hi, well im 19 and my bf is 20. we have been together for 3 months n its been pretty full on! but i am not the most confident person when it come to sexual stuff. he kept asking me to give him head so i ended up doing it even though i didnt want too and he told me i was shit! :( Which really hurt me n he just says "well i was just being honest'" anyways he said he would teach me to do i better which i accept.. but he wants me to do it everytime i see him which is about 4days and nights a week. i am not comfortable doing it that often and i cant talk to him about it coz he just gets angry n sometimes says "oh well if u dont do it then ill have to find some1 who will" what do i do?

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    Tell him his dick is small and tastes like shit then break up with the cunt.

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  • Peaches101
    12 years ago

    Thankyou heaps guys. u helped alot! no i kno that im not overreacting :)

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  • jensapa
    12 years ago

    Sounds like a total wanker. Tell him to suck his own dick.

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    He's a fucking loser who's bullying you to do things you don't wanna do. If I were you I'd dump him. If he cared about you he wouldn't be forcing you to do things and he wouldn't talk to you like that.

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  • cathy22
    12 years ago

    you should BOTH enjoy doing stuff like that. If you don't like it, stop it. What's he going to do, leave?, If he does he's doing you a favor.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    ^^^^^ lol yeah! And I'd kick his arrogant Arse to the kerb and let someone else put up with his shit! If he can get anyone! U deserve better! Go get it!

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  • I_steal_free_bread
    12 years ago

    If you dont want to do it, dont do it!

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  • Gelmurag
    12 years ago

    If he's so willing to leave you over that, you seriously need to move on. Telling you it was shit straight out (afterwards I'm assuming) is shit itself. It is disrespectful. "Hey sweety, stop a second, lets try it this way" is a much more gentle way of handling that.

    So many girls now-a-days put themselves into situations like this because they don't know any better. From now on, meaning whenever/if you read this and into the future, if a guy cannot accept you / respect you / listen to you, he is not by any stretch of any "normal" imagination worth your time.

    Guys are so full of themselves thinking they can get it whenever they feel like, because they "control" the women in their lives. Any guy that does that needs to punched in the face imo. But then again being a nice guy doesn't start working until women reach their 30's. Ohwell, I'd rather be a nice guy than be an asshole. /endrant

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Yeah it's normal, but not a great guy! He has little respect for your feelings, if he made a game out of it with rewards is one thing, but if you are not willing, you should cut your losses and move on!

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  • steph678
    12 years ago

    It's normal. However, you must always follow your heart. Don't ever let anyone talk you into doing something you don't want to - it's just not fair. Find someone who really respects you!

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  • Ark
    12 years ago

    leave him if he can't respect you he don't deserve you

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Dump his ass

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    reasonable man, you have been warned.

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  • kjWA
    12 years ago

    kick his ass to the curbbbbb!

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  • jimdog
    12 years ago

    Ur boyfriend is a asshole.

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  • chewy
    12 years ago

    he is a douche bag plain and simple its just being honest thats just the stupid excuse people use just dont listen to him i bet you are good he is just an asshole.

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