Is it normal that my boyfriend isnt jealous at all?

I know I can be a jealous person, but not overly jealous, I can get jealous when my boyfriend gives too much attention to an other girl in kimd of a flirting way but thats it. What really really bothers me tho is that he never gets jealous of anything I do or anything that happens to me. I didnt do anything on purpose to make him jealous, but sometimes it really.seems like he just doesnt care.. I talked to him about this and he just said things like 'of what should I be jealous of? You barely go out by yourself and you dont hang out with just guys when.you do'.. It really wouldnt be THAT bad if I werent jealous of him that much.. He did some mistakes in the past and he lied to me a lot (about watching porn (wich i dont blame him for but it hurts that he lied to me about it) and about who he finds attractive and who hes talking too when Im nit around and his past girlfriends..) and sometimes I get really frustrated that hes lying to me again about some things but that he still has nothing to worry about regarding me trying or doing anything that might end up hurting him.. What should I do..

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  • Tealights

    Jealousy is normal, like having a cold. You contain it, so you don't spread it around, and work on healing yourself until it passes. It's something you need to cure, not your partner; but if they want or able to, can offer support.

    His lying is a problem though. If you're prying too much into his privacy, he should just tell you, not lie about who he's talking to or hanging out with.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    Maybe he just trusts you.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Maybe he trusts you 100%.

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  • bigfatdick4

    Jealousy is a disease and some people feed on it...

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  • mysistersshadow

    Jealousy is a weird thing to much and its a bad sign to little is bad to. Is it that you just want him to be protective of you? Cos I can completely understand that.

    See I'm in a poly relationship with 4 other ppl and none of us are jealous about any of us showing affection or having sex with each other but the 2 males are definitely protective of us 3 girls. So you see theres no jealousy on 1 level but theres still the protective aspect.

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