Is it normal that my boyfriend has a photo of my coworker on his phone?

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I have come to accept that my boyfriend likes to keep photos of half naked girls on his phone. Most of these he gets from theChive and one is usually his lock screen wallpaper. I even tease him about it sometimes. Last night we were hanging out and I decided change the sexy photo of a girl to something silly but then I came across a recent photo of a previous coworker of mine saved to his phone. He got this photo off Facebook. It was difficult for me to see a photo of this girl's face among all of the sexy photos of models. It hurt my feelings considering there are no photos of me in his phone. I think I already know that this is not normal but I wanted to get the opinion of the anonymous internet. I should mention that I asked him about the photo and it lead to a conversation about him not feeling 100% committed to the relationship but it is understandable for me to be upset, right?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    He's using you for sex until he finds someone he's more into and I'm willing to bet he spanks it a lot!

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  • SkullsNRoses
    9 years ago

    So he doesn't feel committed, he has a phone full of pictures of women and not a single one of you and your alarm bells aren't ringing? Sounds like he wants the perks of girlfriend without the commitment.

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  • Couman
    9 years ago

    That does seem like a strange thing to save, but in his defense, am I right in thinking that as a "friend of a friend" her pic could have come up on his feed without him specifically looking for it?

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    • Garfield-without-Garfield
      9 years ago

      They are Facebook friends so the photo came up on his feed. It was the action of him intentionally saving the photo to his iPhone that bothered me. For some reason it does't seem as big of a deal when the photos are photoshopped models. This felt very personal.

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  • dinz
    9 years ago

    Stand your ground and tell him, to either delete these photos or you'll delete this relationship.

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  • roadflasher
    9 years ago

    If you were a guy, would you fuck her? If so, he is thinking about it, too.

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    • Garfield-without-Garfield
      9 years ago

      Yes I was already aware that he wanted to fuck her, I just thought it was weird he needed to save a photo of her face to his phone. Not even a full body shot.

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      • roadflasher
        9 years ago

        I would think about changing my Facebook relationship status, if I were you.

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  • Mersaphe
    9 years ago

    He obviously digs your colleague more than he digs you

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