Is it normal that my boyfriend feels differently now that i.m pregnant?

tell him you want to make love and it would be nice if he could feel the baby kick. He might be afraid of hurting you or some such nonsense. I was at my horniest when I was pregnant with twins. At least he doesn't think he is pregnant too. My ex was really enthusiastic and thought he was pregnant as well and kept saying he felt what I felt.Drove me crazy.

men blame everything on our hormones
its bullshit
because even when you come out after you have the baby your still the same person, same you.
okay so when we are pregnant our hormones may change a little as in we may cry for something we don't have such as a certain food we crave(because we are pregnant)
but over all it is not the reason why the men or little immature boys should be acting.obviously he isn't ready for a fkn kid.
and they always love to blame everything on US.
my husband when we got pregnant-this was before we got engaged even. i left him because he didn't want her, and he kept listening to all his fake ass friends telling him to tell me to get an abortion and break up with me. funny how things change in the end. i was the one that left his sorry ass out on a fkn rope because he never cared for me or did shit for me or the baby. your bf may end up not accepting that he is having a child(baby) whatever you may want to call it. -you will be very lucky one in million if he comes through and accepts it. but i doubt it since you say he hasn't been there and hasn't even felt his unborn kicking through your belly and thats just sad.
my boyfriend at the time came though(came around by the 4th month of my pregnancy and starting taking care of me(her) and he went to the ultra sounds with me and everything. sometimes he couldn't make it cause he had to work but he came a few times that he could.
i don't know how old you two are so i can't say much more. other than that i only wish you and your baby the best future. and remember if your bf is ignoring you being distant and it hurts you. put him aside and stop thinking of him period. because what ever emotion you feel the baby will feel and the baby will grow up emotionally traumatized or messed up like my friend's daughter is. you and baby deserve best. so only think positive and a baby is not the best decision but it happens whether we wanted it or not.

I think people have missed something here. The possibiity that the boyfriend is evil/horibly/nasty whatever has been covered. What has not been adressed is this pregnacy is so boring becaus of the woman.

You say your boyfriend is distant and barely bothers with you and no more sex. There are two people in the relationship, maybe your not bothering with him because you have a baby to care for, so he doesn't bother with you. He hasn't felt her move one time...do you grab his hand and make him feel or just hope he knows whats going on?

This isn't a dig at you this is just food for thought, that maybe relationship problems are two way.

How have you acted since you got pregnant? Maybe you are in a bad mood so he doesn't want to upset you. I am not saying this is right either but maybe he just thinks you are nasty pregnant. Since you are not skinny and cute and probobly eating more. So he sees you like a pig. Maybe he was not ready to have a child or not ready to deal with you pregnant. I am not saying you are bad for being pregnant. Though it would help to know more about the story to give a good answer. Since we do not know how you are reacting to him. He should care about the child though. The child is not just ALL YOURS if he chose to have it with you. I have known some dads who could care less about their children and are only centered around what the wife does for them. I am not doubting he might just be an immature jerk either though. Depending on how you react act would result in certien reactions from the other party. Though we are missing that part of it.

Well for starters, how old are you? Was this a planned pregnancy or a surprise? And how long have you and your boyfriend been together?

so sad. this should be one of the happiest times in your life, but it's not because your guy is a prick. :( and i'm not trying to be mean, but go ahead and prepare yourself now for him to walk out on you and the baby. i'm getting a definite bad vibe from him.

You should enjoy your pregnancy and the bond that u are creating with ur baby!!! Forget about ur bf and concentrate and put all ur energy on that wonderful little bundle of joy that you have created! He is missing out and one day will regret it! Don't worry about it!!! Good luck!!!

No, it's not normal of him. And that's really sad. I'm sorry that you have to experience such a wonderful part of life so companionless.

I thought my wife was absolutely beautiful when she was carrying our daughter. There were some problems that made parts of it a drag. Pregnancy takes a toll out of the mother. Sometimes, I didn't know how to comfort her. I was afraid of intimacy out of fear for our baby's safety.

Communication is important in any relationship. Now that you are on the road to being a mommy and a daddy, it's more important than ever. If you can't communicate, you need to find someone (such as a counselor) who can help you.

Best wishes, and enjoy that baby!

a lot of what your feeling is probably hormones and its different for men they dont actually have that connection with there child untill its born as it doesnt seem real to them yet. and the sex part well he might bee thinking he might hurt the baby or something as a lot of men do.

I can kind of understand him not asking for sex and all, maybe he thinks because you're pregant that you don't want any. Maybe he does find you unattractive. Then again, a strong couple always talks about everything to each other. Him not even feeling your child kick is really lame. (sorry don't know how to describe this) You should talk to him and see what's wrong cause he's not normal in my opinion.

Maybe he is worried about the child, pregnant women tend to be moody sometimes, and sometimes men have hard time living with it.
I think it is normal, but you might want to confront him to make sure.