Is it normal that my bf pretends he’s raping me when we have sex

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before we have sex or even during sometimes he says stuff like “i’m gonna rape you” or stuff like that... is that normal

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Based on 60 votes (31 yes)
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  • Tiffany2016
    6 years ago

    Rape fantasies are common for both women and men. Nothing wrong with some role playing...

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    Does it matter if it's consensual?

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  • lonewolf1253
    6 years ago

    Rape fantasies are very common. The real question should be-Do you like it when he says that?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      i know he does it to be sexual so it’s whatever just wanted to know if it’s normal

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      • lonewolf1253
        6 years ago

        Anything is normal in bed if both partners enjoy it in my opinion.

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        • MisterPapaya
          6 years ago

          Exactly.

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  • csdoug
    6 years ago

    I wish the guys that were topping me would say that & act like it.

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  • scblsorta
    6 years ago

    Common fantasy. As long as you’re fine with it, there’s no problem.

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  • Patrkle
    6 years ago

    Uhm!!! No!!! Get a new boyfriend...

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    But how do you feel about it?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      i like it

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      • Ellenna
        6 years ago

        If you both like it I see no problem

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    I think rape play can damage people emotionally.

    Tell him to stop if you don't feel comfortable with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      how can it damage people emotionally

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        I would be if I felt I was being raped.

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  • jo8898
    6 years ago

    You have love making and rough sex. Sounds like he might just like rough sex!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      what’s the difference

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  • countingsleep
    6 years ago

    he's prob just kinky like that but he should talk to you about it and see how you feel lol

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