Is it normal that my bf barely let's me touch him?

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I've been with my bf for quite a while now and I like him a damn lot.

I think he likes me too because of things he says and does BUT the only moment where i can touch him everywhere is when we have sex!

All the other normal times, he feels weird if i touch his hair or neck or back or face and it goes on and on. He's fine with holding hands now and then, kissing and hugging are OK too though we don't do any of this often.

Is this a normal thing for dudes??

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Based on 33 votes (8 yes)
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  • ghst
    8 years ago

    once this guy was crushing on me but he didnt like close flirting or touching me only because he was a anxious guy. it was a personality thing for him.

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  • CDmale4fem
    8 years ago

    Hes afraid some of his other "female friends" will see you with him, that will cut into his fool around time when your not around. And remember- hes a guy. He will tell you what ever you want to hear so long as he can get you in bed for more sex. A stiff cock has no conscience.

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  • JaiShahi
    8 years ago

    He is desperate for sex but not for emotional love. He takes you as a sex doll. you are his habit that's why he doesnt leave you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      nah, it's def not that

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    Maybe you guys are right, it could be anxiety, his life's not easy.. But on the other hand, I like to feel like he likes having me close. He shivers if i touch him..

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    • DADNSCAL
      8 years ago

      Anxiety but to what? I hate to go here, but I think he has been beaten or abused.

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  • DolphinAngel
    8 years ago

    It sounds like a problem with anxiety or something. I really love cuddling but I also flinch when people try touching me, doesn't matter how close they are. Try speaking to him about this openly, he will probably tell you what the problem is.

    I think there's nothing about you that makes him uncomfortable. Don't worry :3

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Maybe he thinks that touching is only appropriate in the bedroom.

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