Is it normal that my bestfriend thinks i should change to fit in?

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i recently had an arguement with my 'best friend' and she said that i change to fit in so people will like me.
She also says nasty comments to me like about how i have my hair and how i 'use' her?
We also sit with 3 more people at breaks and dinners at school and one of them calls me fat all the time and my best friend always talks bout me behind my back with 2 of them because shes in most of there classes. When i told her that i didnt want to sit with the girl that called me fat she just said i dont want to sit with ***** (the third girl) because i dont like her.
Whenever i say something to her she just turns it around and makes it out that im the person in the wrong. I dont know what to do.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago | pl

    It's time for new friends.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    That girl IS NOT your best friend. A best friend wouldn't treat you like that. Drop her and find someone who's actually worth your time. And you don't and shouldn't have to change for anyone. If someone jumped off a bridge and killed themselves, would you jump after? You don't have to do SHIT to fit in. Be yourself, and F everyone else. Followers are lame. Do your own thing. Someone out there is gonna love you for you.

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Drop her

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  • worried78
    12 years ago

    Dump her.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    A true friend would accept you for who you are, and not talk behind your back. Don't change just to fit in. Be yourself and people will like you. And if someone doesn't like you, it's their loss. Try to make new friends and ignore her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    bestfriend? Think you got something wrong

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  • Meh432
    12 years ago

    If she wants you to change, she isn't your best friend. I'm sorry, but get new friends.

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  • nanimeow
    12 years ago

    She sounds terrible. Find a new friend.

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul
    11 years ago

    sounds like she abuses you to make herself feel better. either that or something happened between you guys and she's trying to ditch you without saying it to you properly. either way, try and move on.

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  • ralphwiggum
    12 years ago

    Friend never treat other friends like that. I would not make too much drama with your so called friends, but I would suggest finding new friends then start hanging out with them. Join a new club at your school, I don't know how big your school is, but a club is always a good place to meet new people.

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  • lady4123
    12 years ago

    Um, she's not you friend. Lose her. enough said, she sucks and isn't REAL friend. Get real friends.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    take your friend's advice and change. change friends and your outlook. if you gossip change that too. be by yourself for awhile and change everything you can. your clothes, style go for long walks and get fit. you show her whos boss in your life. You are!

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  • Appreciate
    12 years ago

    you're like one of those annoying rejects people always try and get rid of but keep coming back...

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    • Appreciate
      12 years ago

      no offense btw, but i'd have to agree with solophonic

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