Is it normal that men shouldn't give all their care to their girlfriends

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When I make my girlfriend feels like she is everything to me and I care about her a lot I feel like I shouldn't do this with her!
Is it normal or what do you think ?

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Based on 24 votes (11 yes)
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  • Antares
    12 years ago

    Lol, it's a grey-area question. If I say yes, it'll make me "pathetic" in her eyes, because then I have no aspirations and ambitions. But in truth it's a no and yes.

    I love her, that's that. I practically worship her (she really is sexy and unique). See, she's pretty much my future wife in my eyes, but she isn't my boss, neither is she my life. Just my happiness.

    I've ambitions, most revolving around our future together, but some solely for myself. Say, work, expanding my knowledge, for examples.

    My girlfriend may mean a whole lot to me, but she never was my everything. Before I met her, I already had goals for myself. A dude should have a life outside the romance circle, but not indulge himself like he's single once he has a lady (other words: don't cheat and screw things up). So yeah.

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      I like your last paragraph, completely right .. when a dude have a life outside the romance circle then he will not give all his care and attention to his gf, so yes :D

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Most guys don't do that.

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  • iAddicted
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal. Every other guy feels this way mostly because we don't want to feel like we have a soft spot.

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      are you a female ?

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  • pem24
    12 years ago

    Normal. Maybe you are restraining to give it all because you are trying to guard your "tough guy" image or you had a traumatic experience with a past relationship?

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      you mean that I was trying to be everything in her life ? that no one else can take her from me ?

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      • pem24
        12 years ago

        That's why my comment is "maybe" with a question that you must answer.

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        • LostinU
          12 years ago

          No I don't have a traumatic experience

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Why not?

    Does it make you feel vulnerable or are you lying?

    If you don't make her feel like this, she will think you don't care and move on so she can find someone who does!

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      I don't know, but some times I feel like because she knows she is everything to me so she do whatever and doesn't make a consideration for me !!

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        Well my son means everything to me but I wouldn't accept any bad manners or disrespect from him. It doesn't mean you have to be a doormat or put up with any crap. Both of you should treat each other as if you are best friends.

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