Is it normal that me and my ex are still having sex?

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She broke up with me almost a month ago and we've started having sex again. We are still really good friends and every time I go to see her we end up having sex. I mention it to her and she laughs. I really don't understand what's going on, she doesn't ever tell me she loves me or anything, and I'm trying to find someone new but I love her SO MUCH and when she keeps this emotional bond between us I really don't wanna let her go.

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Based on 19 votes (8 yes)
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  • KholatKhult
    4 years ago

    Yeah a lot of people here hear “sex” and think everything must be going great. Boo. It’s possible she’s keeping you around on purpose while she hunts elsewhere, like a “back up”.

    I’d suggest cutting off the sex, because you’re likely to get hurt as soon as she picks up a new guy and you’re left in the cold. If she liked you as much as you like her you’d be together.

    You sound like you think there might still be a chance for you two, you should get that straight. Don’t sacrifice your worth and your emotions or your chance of finding someone better just to keep some sex around

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    • Nikclaire
      4 years ago

      "It’s possible she’s keeping you around on purpose while she hunts elsewhere, like a “back up”."

      That's exactly what she is doing. O.P is going to get hurt.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      I suggest not cutting off the sex. Sex is great for you and feels good. Fucking bang away.

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  • Jennifer21
    4 years ago

    Maybe she just likes sex!

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    4 years ago

    I would like to clarify I don't FEEL used. We do more than have sex. We still go out and do things and have fun, we're really good friends.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    Cut all ties with her. You're nothing more than her toy now. She's going to ditch you when she finds another guy. Best to ditch her before that inevitably happens.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      But what if he likes sex? I know its unlike considering how very, very few males enjoy intercourse, but OP just might.

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  • Shiki
    4 years ago

    This ain't any emotional bond. Try to seperate it now.
    It is hard, breaking the comtact absoulutely maybe would make it

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  • litelander8
    4 years ago

    She probably won’t get back with you. And be careful, if y’all aren’t exclusive, she’s probably seeing other people too.

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    • d0esnormalmatter
      4 years ago

      That's what I thought too but like why would she still her EX if she sees other people? You'd think the fact that they broke up would make it awkward. How often do people go from a relationship to just regular fuck buddies afterwards?

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      • litelander8
        4 years ago

        I fucked my ex for months after we broke up. Even after going on dates with other dudes.

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        • d0esnormalmatter
          4 years ago

          Okay cool. It must be normal if you did it? Think about that for a second. What if we applied that rule to me?

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          • litelander8
            4 years ago

            I feel like it’s common after long relationships bc people are comfortable and after the idea of pleasing the other in all other ways, you can just fuck.

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            • d0esnormalmatter
              4 years ago

              Idk chief. It's not the wildest thing ever but I still haven't heard of this irl.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    If it's to much stop. If it's not enjoy the sex

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    Yeah I salute you

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