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Most the time I feel weird giving a compliment because it can be assumed as a flirtacious gesture.
Especially guys!! IIN? Whats the difference between a friendly compliment to a subtle flirt?
Depends on what you compliment.
Appearance, demeanor, fashion choice all point at flirting. Some personality traits (bravery, charm, gentlemanliness) also have flirty undertones.
Complimenting accomplishments, decisions and goals are usually fine.
Hmm I see! I am careful with what I say and I have recently figured out why I hardly compliment anyone besides family. Thats why alot of the time I hold back frm basic compliments such as "you have really prety eyes (to a girl) cause i dont want her to think im lezzie.
Then again alot of girls will compliment each other on accesories, appearance (hair,clothing,jewerly,appearance) etc! So it can be confusing to decipher whether a girl is a lezzie and making a move or just being friendly.
I generally dont compliment guys unless I like em because they are too quick to jump to conclusions.
Incomplet is right, but it also depends on your tone of voice demeanor as well as if you're absolutely clear in what you say.
I'm never afraid to compliment a guy. I would hope many have the sense to realize that a compliment doesn't mean that I would jump into bed with them (similar to when I'm complimented. I don't think that).
Telling your friend that it's cute when he blushes or his laugh makes you smile can be taken the wrong way, but adding that he's an awesome friend to hang around will eliminate any doubt.
Some say this is cruel. I think it's realistic.
I've noticed that some people take anything as flirting, but it all depends on the situation. If you're on a night out, assume a guy will take most compliments as flirting, but if you're just with friends, unless you're being all girly and fawning over him, they should take it as a compliment.
If you're a female and really attractive, you basically have to be very careful what you say to men. I can almost guarantee if it's anything related to appearance, fashion, or personality it will be misconstrued.