Is it normal that it's not so black and white?
People always like to act like meat-eating people don't care about animals being abused while they're being raised for our consumption. That's false as I care about them as much as the next person. What these people aren't aware of is that it's not so simple to just stop buying commercialized meat, get their own ranch, and hunt. There's laws and limits in place. You need a X number of acres for livestock, a hunting licence, and you can only hunt a X number of days out of the year. Not only that, but you also need to have a gun permit and even be good with a gun.
Just because someone eats meat does NOT mean they don't care or not grateful for the animal that died to be their chicken, fish, steak, or pork dinner.
With this in mind, Vegetarians and Vegans aren't neccessarily "Saints" for giving up meat or all animal products. If anything, it only makes them more entilted to act as if they're "Godsends".