Is it normal that it makes me angry that my girlfriend doesn't like kissing?

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We've beein kissing for 10 months now, it was really intimate and deep at first, it was both our first time. but she's drifted more and more away from it, and now she's telling me she doesn't like it. I'm pretty mad and I can't live without it. im not trying to be a perv but i find it neccessary (for me) IIN? does anyone else feel this way?

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    I like kissing. I absolutely HATE frenching. So my advice is shut your mouth

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm a girl and I don't like kissing either. I perfer cuddling a lot more. But that does not mean I never kiss my boyfriend, we just never make out because he knows I don't like it. Maybe you could try taking to her if you really care about her.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    not kissing dfk is a deal breaker for me

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  • RBP1
    8 years ago

    if youve not had sex yet and dont plan to until youre married then im thinking you are both quite into your bible etc? if this were the case then its no sex before marriage if youre strict but then you could also say kissing is crossing the line and perhaps your gf's conscience is bugging her.. just one possibility

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    If you kiss too much it gets really boring for some people

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  • blackolive
    11 years ago

    Yeah maybe you should try making out without tongue. It can be really good.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    she might enjoy some fingering first to warm up

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I'm thinking she wants to get laid already but the OP hasn't answered my question.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    Yeah man you might not be the best kisser. It's worth googling even if you don't agree.

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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    Maybe your a whole mouth slobbery kisser and she just watched some romance movies and now shes thinkin all like, "Well Brad Pitt doesnt kiss like that." And now shes mad at you and you dont even know it.

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    • Skipper3456
      12 years ago

      i dont think im a bad kisser. shes the only person ive ever kissed, and she always told me i was good at it. plus ive looked up plenty of techniques.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Have you had sex with her?

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    • Skipper3456
      12 years ago

      no, not until marraige, but idk if we'll get married, prolly not.

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      • Tisgranum
        12 years ago

        It might turn her on to kiss and that bothers her as it can't go any further. It's something you might want to inquire about. Might be completely off base to of course.

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  • GhostQueen
    12 years ago

    It's normal for you to feel upset that she doesn't enjoy something you enjoy. But it's also normal for her not to enjoy kissing. It took me 3 years and 4 different guys to start actually enjoying it. Maybe she's the same way. But if it's becoming a point of tension in your relationship, either you need to resolve it (you change your technique, she puts up with it to keep you happy as long as you do something that makes her happy) or find S.O.s who have similar preferences.

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