Is it normal that it breaks my heart my boyfriend won't want sex?

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It's hard to address this issue as everyone knows there's no right or wrongs in this matters, but i feel my boyfriend's sex drive is too weak for me. concretely, i mean i want sex more often than him. He makes me feel that two nights in a row it to much to ask.
It's messing with my self steem, sometimes i think I'll go crazy or depressed from having less sex than I'd like and less than the average healthy minimum.
This is really hard to deal with for me, it messes with my head, makes me feel insecure. it might be stupid but I'm just being very honest about how it feels from my perspective

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    your feelings are perfectly normal.

    i know its a delicate issue but you need to talk with your boyfriend about this.

    if his sex drive is lower than yours and its making you feel insecure he should be more romantic to show his affection in ways other than sex and you should try to understand this is his way of expressing his love and affection

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      fortunately he's really sweet and shows his love in other ways. i only feel insecure in this particular subject.
      our relationship is almost perfect otherwise. but i feel we don't connect much in the flirty stuff

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        I was the same way for years. In time i learned to change to be a more complete person so I wouldn't be hurting my best friend anymore. Only problem was it didn't happen overnight. I regret all the times i wasn't romantic when she really wanted it. It's something ill probably never get over because i know it was very hurtful not to connect on that level

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          For me it's kinda sad that we don't get to connect on that level, because it's otherwise it's such a healthy perfect relationship...
          Like he's missing out on something he would like.

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