Is it normal that it bothers me when people impose human emotions onto animals?
I know that it's part of human nature that we automatically tag human qualities onto things. It makes it easier to accept the actions of others and aids in social interaction between our own species but it doesn't seem to get through to people's heads that MOST animals just don't have that kind of complex emotion. Elephants and dogs are an exception, tests have shown that they actually do have deeper emotions other than the basic hunger fear and acceptance, but to say that they get embarrassed, or that they understand the concepts of romance and that they actually understand the significance of our strange human habits is absurd.
This mostly bothers me when people interact with cats. Cats don't feel attachment like dogs do, not to that deep emotional level. They seek you out when they feel that you can fulfill a need that they have, be it hunger, thirst, or a massage behind the ear. Sure they can show trust and accept you like a fellow cat but that's about it. They can only socialize to the limit of their species and don't care about trivial matters. When you put clothes on them, chances are they don't like it because it's physically uncomfortable and they don't like the sensation of being constricted by clothing, not because the article is pink and covered in flowers and bows.
I don't dislike animals in any way, mind you all, I respect them for what they are. They are animals and shouldn't be treated like humans. They should be respected for their unique traits as the animals they are as they are magnificent creatures. Treating like "Just another member of the family" It's just not...right.