Is it normal that it bothers me when people impose human emotions onto animals?

I know that it's part of human nature that we automatically tag human qualities onto things. It makes it easier to accept the actions of others and aids in social interaction between our own species but it doesn't seem to get through to people's heads that MOST animals just don't have that kind of complex emotion. Elephants and dogs are an exception, tests have shown that they actually do have deeper emotions other than the basic hunger fear and acceptance, but to say that they get embarrassed, or that they understand the concepts of romance and that they actually understand the significance of our strange human habits is absurd.

This mostly bothers me when people interact with cats. Cats don't feel attachment like dogs do, not to that deep emotional level. They seek you out when they feel that you can fulfill a need that they have, be it hunger, thirst, or a massage behind the ear. Sure they can show trust and accept you like a fellow cat but that's about it. They can only socialize to the limit of their species and don't care about trivial matters. When you put clothes on them, chances are they don't like it because it's physically uncomfortable and they don't like the sensation of being constricted by clothing, not because the article is pink and covered in flowers and bows.

I don't dislike animals in any way, mind you all, I respect them for what they are. They are animals and shouldn't be treated like humans. They should be respected for their unique traits as the animals they are as they are magnificent creatures. Treating like "Just another member of the family" It's just not...right.

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  • lolol555

    What? There's plenty of evidence cats can form attachments. How the hell did you come to the conclusion they can't?

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    • Crusades

      What evidence? Do you have links?

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      • lolol555

        tried a comment with links twice and it fucked up both times

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      • lolol555

        http://www.petcentric.com/07-13-2009/do-cats-feel-love
        http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/04/loyal-italian-cat-todo-br_n_2406479.html
        http://www.theguardian.com/science/head-quarters/2013/sep/12/neuroscience-psychology

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      • lolol555

        http://www.petcentric.com/07-13-2009/do-cats-feel-love
        example of cat still caring for owner after their death as mentioned: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/04/loyal-italian-cat-todo-br_n_2406479.html
        http://www.theguardian.com/science/head-quarters/2013/sep/12/neuroscience-psychology (mentions more studies which give evidence in article)

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    • Royalburden

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=03-1tAecIR4

      http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/cats-recognise-their-owners-voices-but-never-evolved-to-care-says-study-8966580.html

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  • Naughty_rascal

    Whoops fatal error.
    Someone starting from the position of 'Humans are above all other sentient creatures'.
    Humans are like this; Because they can work a toaster, or send an email, or pontificate on any manner of subjects they think they 'know' everything.
    I'm with Socrates: the only think i can know as an absolute truth is that i don't know anything.
    We don't know what a cat's experience is, because we have never been a cat.

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    • Royalburden

      First of all I said nothing about being "Above all creatures" I simply stated that MOST animals aren't developed in the same way as we are emotions wise. WHICH IS SCIENTIFICALLY TRUE. Their brains just aren't developed that way. Their goal is to survive and thrive like they where evolved to and they do so with supreme skill. I admire them for that, they serve the entire world without thinking about it without contemplating whether it was the right thing to do or the wrong thing to do. If anything I think THEY are above us as generally all we care about is ourselves. I just don't think it's necessary to treat animals like they ARE humans and coddle them like our own children. Animals deserve more respect than that. Play with them to sharpen their natural abilities, feed them, cuddle and rub them to satisfy a mutual need for comfort and right there that's a true closeness you will never get from just toting that pet around and subjecting it to human activities like dressing up, looking pretty with that sparkly collar, teaching it to do meaningless tricks like role over and dance.

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  • Energy

    Cats rule!!!!

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  • Freedom_

    I beg to differ. The last cat I saved showed thankfulness. I had saved him on accident actually. You see, he looked a lot like the other cat I had at the time (which had no soul...j/k); they were both gingers and were about the same size and I was half drunk off my ass. I heard our dogs barking in the backyard and went out to investigate. The tangerine cat that I thought I already owned was perched on the fence, freaked the fuck out. I ran out to grab him and in my house he found refuge.

    I was still pretty wasted so I flopped down on the couch. I looked over at "my" cat across the room and was noticing how pale he looked now, after all the commotion. I remember wondering if fear had weakened the pigment of his fur... it was either that or the alcohol was distorting my vision gravely. He kept staring at me hesitant, but longingly and in due course hopped up on the couch to join my drunken slumber. His affectionate purrs rumbled violently. I thought this was strange as this cat has never cared to bond before. I think he snuggled up under the blankets and everything, but I don't quite remember, and there in my arms he slept all the night. When I woke in the morning I observed the white flea collar that he wasn't wearing the day before. My sister consoled with, "Mom probably put it on him".

    It still didn't make complete sense to me, but it took my mind off the matter for a few minutes. He was still quite pale and I was getting worried that he was ill. Even his stripes were awry. Just when it hit me my REAL cat came scurrying from one of the back rooms. He was quite timid so he did something weird like hide and surveil his doppelganger, his EVIL TWIN! I screeched and threw the intruder right out the door with no mercy!

    However, that was not enough to ward the little creeper off. He hung around for a few days, without us feeding him or anything. He cupped water out of our bucket with his paw. Soon, my family members did start feeding him. I was still drenched in the guilt of sleeping with a stray cat. I felt so violated and my other cat seemed quite offended as well. Although the more the stray hung around the more I liked him. He came to prove his immense loyalty and appreciation by walking my sister and I to the end of our street, to a 6 lane roadway and waited patiently in some corner bushes for our return from the store.

    And so we took him in because he manipulated the fuck out of us, which is pretty cool for a cat. Sadly, he went incognito when we moved to the country. I like to think he traveled back to the city, where his heart was (might have been?), arrived safely and continued his legacy of walking families to stores and slurping bucket water much like a raccoon might do.

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    • Royalburden

      I'm just going to say this is a nice well written story. You should get a publisher.

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      • Freedom_

        Cool :) You want to be my publisher?

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    • Gbm1

      That's such a nice story :) The cat probably went back to your old house. I don't know how they do it, but they tend to find their way back to the place they love so much. Mind blowing really. Even if their owner doesn't live there anymore. Maybe the new owners of that house look after him :)

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  • Avant-Garde

    It certainly is obvious which side you are on. Cats are the best. My cat is in Oriental grouping and they have the tendency of forming a close bond with their special person. Even cats that aren't in this grouping have the ability to form deep emotional attachments.

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  • Gbm1

    Cats do know emotions! When I'm upset she knows, when I cry she meows and licks my cheek. When my mum gets home she'll jump off the sofa and greet her. When I go in the bath she sits at the door meowing and waiting until I get out.

    My cat was a stray, so she latched on to us. We weren't after a pet at the time (it was very bad timing with family issues). Shes created a whole bond of her own by choosing, and I'm so grateful she found us. (Yes, I know she latched on to us for the food, because we gave her tuna to build her weight up)

    Yes, she may be clingy, but she's been through a lot as a stray and now she's finally comfortable. I find it endearing.

    I also don't agree with putting clothes on animals but really, that is a whole different topic.

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    • Royalburden

      I mean, hey I get that! I have two cats my self one of them generally wants nothing to do with me but the other will paw at my door in the middle of the night, follow me around to the point of near making me trip, and will squall the moment I walk in the door.

      I'm not stupid though, I don't think it has anything to do with affection or love. It's because I'm the one who fills the bowls, cleans the litter box, gives them water. I'm the one who gives them treats, I'm the one who bought them their favorite toy, the laser pointer I was the first to play with them with it and I continue to when the house is empty in the middle of the day. It makes perfect sense that, at least one of them appears to like me more. The other one doesn't care as much because her brother takes advantage of all these things more than she does. Her brother is bigger than her, she doesn't really care for real meat(which I always thought was strange) She prefers the packaged cat snacks. As for the laser pointer she rarely gets a chance with it because her brother LITERALLY goes mental whenever I take it out.

      You seem to explain it yourself when you said she latched on to you for the food.

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      • Gbm1

        They say that cats choose only one person that they tend to be affectionate towards. Perhaps your other cat is attached to another person maybe? I don't know, cats are weird like that. Some are happy and playful, others are grumpy and lazy. I often wonder what goes on inside their heads.

        Sometimes she sits and winks at me. I often wink back in case it means something.

        And as for the food, she doesn't eat meat either. Only tuna and chicken. Turns her nose up at anything else we give her. Doesn't eat beef, lamb or rabbit flavour cat food at all. So fussy!

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  • westoptic

    I think that until you can read an animals mind; you cannot definitively say whether or not they possess certain emotions. As human beings, we feel human emotions. Just because I say my dog is happy, doesn't mean I'm implying she's happy in the "human" sense of the word. We use human emotions to describe animals because we do not know how they feel our emotions so we can only use our own as a comparison.

    ALL ANIMALS USE THEIR OWN EMOTIONS AS A BASIS TO UNDERSTAND THE EMOTIONS OF OTHERS. Mammals all basically speak the same language.

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    • Royalburden

      If you're right and we "just don't know". Then don't you think it'd be better to assume they comprehend the basic emotions, happiness, fear, discomfort, etc. And leave the more complex emotions to those we KNOW can express them? Is it so difficult to do that? I've seen people impose embarrassment and even full reactions to things like videos and statements made by other people. "Don't say that you'll hurt it's feelings." There's no real way you can hurt an animals feelings unless it's physical hurt they're feeling.

      Also I'll continue to doubt that statement until it's explained coherently.

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  • noid

    My cat is attached to me.

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    • gummy_jr

      With it's claws? D: let's hope you're wearing thick clothing.

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      • Lissisbliss

        Lol :D

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      • noid

        Haha

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    • Royalburden

      Yeah, because you either feed it, play with it, or rub it behind the ear in that way he likes.

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  • callingfrom

    Yes, that is extremely annoying, and what's more annoying is when people impose their own ethics on to animals *shudders*. I know a woman who wanted to have her dogs killed in a painful way for killing a baby deer. What's your take on people who impose their own religions, political beliefs, and favorite TV shows on animals? I've met people who do all these things and more.

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    • Gbm1

      Like when people make their dogs eat 'vegetarian food'. Urgh, they were evolved to be pack animals - meat eaters, not vegetarians. It's cruel! Give the dog a sausage if it wants it!
      Cannot understand why people do this.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Dogs are better judges of human facial expressions and discerning what emotion a person is feeling than most people are of other people.

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    • Royalburden

      Yes I understand that, that's why I listed dogs as an exception. They where evolved as pack animals it was in their interest to understand expressions as it helped them convey whether the other dog was a challenge or not.

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  • Gspyder

    There is more and more scientific evidence coming out over a broad range of animals confirming that the do feel "human" emotions.

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  • green_boogers

    I experimented by purring after my cat used her scratching post. She then let me practice Reiki touch therapy on her. After a few weeks, she became fiercely loyal to me as if I was her kitten.

    Go figure.

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  • Holzman_67

    hard to say whether I agree with you on this or not
    I might have to give it some more thought.
    I'm leaning more towards agreement, I've thought the same thing about cats but I do not own one so I have not observed their behavouir in a owner relationship with them

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    • RoseIsabella

      I love kitty cats, they rock! The Siamese is a very dog like breed of cat.

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  • sega31098

    Actually, there are many human-like emotions that other animals have. All mammals have a neocortex and a limbic system, the sites that control emotion in humans. And yes, that includes your meat mammals: Even cows in a way have "best friends" and will feel stressed if separated from them. There's also a neocortex homolog found in birds. There ARE many emotions that humans feel that some other mammals don't feel and many are overestimated by modern society, but there's evidence that it does go beyond simple satiety. It starts to become questionable once you go below mammals on the phylogeny.

    BTW, 75% of all animals are insects (which lack vertebrate brain), so you TECHNICALLY may be right but if by "animal" you're referring to animals like cats, cows, pigs, etc. then they do have fairly complex emotions.

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  • Poolnoodle

    I think it's more about explaining our emotions in terms that we know. I know Fido isn't "my baby" and that I'm not his "mommy" but its the closet words we can get to using that describe our love and attachment for that animal.
    Now it's definitely strange to see a dog being walked in a stroller, feasting on ice cream with shades on, but describing human characteristics to vocalize the love for a pet is not abnormal.

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  • Crusades

    People who think animals have emotions are delusional.

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    • sega31098

      If by "delusional" you mean educated in the field of science then yes, you're right.

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      • Crusades

        So, owning a pet automatically makes you a scientist?

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