Is it normal that im this jealous?

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So for march break, my boyfriend for 7 months is going on a family vacation with their family friends. In this other family they have a daughter the same age as him and they have known eachother forever. He says nothing is going to happen and has told me he wont do anything, although I know he finds her attractive. (She is gorgeous) is it normal that i am kinda scared something will happen between them? Advice?

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Based on 25 votes (23 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    I think its normal for you to be concerned but if you can't trust him with this how can you ever let him out of your sight?

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  • Sally_Sally
    8 years ago

    Sounds like this is a good time to find out if he's a good boyfriend and someone you will keep, or, someone to ditch right away. Either way, let him go since you don't have much choice. If you don't have trust and confidence in him around other women, he's not worth having.

    Hope this helps.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It's really very, very simple;
    'If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.'

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      If you're the real gypsysailor I'm concerned you've developed dementia to have become so out of character as to be quoting such cliches and if you're not, fuck off and get a life

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I've always felt that this was the perfect saying to remind anyone who is jealous of the reality of togetherness.

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          Yeah I guess you're right but it's such a hackneyed cliche and I'm still not sure about your true identity

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            I'm the only sea gypsy that's been around 2+ years.

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago

              So why the change of colour to yellow? Just to confuse us or because you're actually an interloper?

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    jealousy has always been flattering to me. it doesn't even really have anything to do with being insecure like everyone always says in magazines and school, (although insecurity probably makes it worse). i think it's normal. it's only really not normal if you get jealous like this of guys you barely know.

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