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My boyfriend is going to come and visit and im a virgin so im really inexperienced and he want to go down on me but im worried about like the smell what do i do? And he also wants to use his finger but im scared he might pop my cherry! Should i let him? I want him to but im just afraid and embarrassed
Only go as far as YOU are willing to go.
If you're worried about smell, take the day preparing as you want... shave your legs, do your hair, read a book, have a soothing bath.
The bath especially. I mean if you're worried about smell then just take a bath.
I mean sure, there's going to be some odor as you get excited, but that's natural and the smell of arousal isn't bad. It means he's doing it right. If you're still worried however, have some flavored lube on hand if he wants to use it.
Just... if you use flavored lube, be sure to wash yourself thoroughly when you're done for the evening. The last thing you want to have is sugar lingering in your vaginal canal because it's a great way to encourage yeast infections. And those are so not sexy.
Wash your vulva throughly but not so much that you make the tissues irritated. Keep in mind that all vulvas have a natural smell.
The best way for a prettier smell down there is to ass a bit of tea tree oil to your bath water, it cleans very very well and doesn't irritate :) you also don't smell it on your skin after you're dry
If you're a clean and in good health, you have nothing to worry about. The smell of a vagina is very arousing to most people.
You have little to worry about, but you be the one to set the boundaries and stick with what you are comfortable with