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so me and my bf have been going out for 2 year but maybe about 3 months ago i been getting bored i love him very much and i know he loves me too. hes not bored but i am and i dont know what to do !
if yall could give me some advice that would be nice !(:
thank you!
My boyfriend and I got bored of each other in year 3. But we enjoy each other's companionship and camaraderie. We live together, but have sex with other people. I would never trade the accountability i get with him for any girl i meet, but I do enjoy hooking up with girls for the short term. Maybe you could arrange a more heterosexual standard for you and your man?
Spice it up yourself, boring isn't an incurable problem, it's rather easy to fix. If you're bored, get up and fix it yourself... Whatever you consider fun, go for it; bets are he'll go right along with it. If you get him to have fun too, I bet he'll get into the spirit of it, and be right there with you.
Your other option is to talk to him and tell him you need more variety and interesting things going on, and see if he will put the effort in himself. But if you're the one feeling bored, it's really up to you to fix it.
Btw, boring isn't a big problem. It's much better than not boring enough; which can cause all kinds of problems. Good Luck.
If he's not the person you envisage your life with, break up sooner rather than later. For both your sakes.
I agree. Imagine life if you lived with him! Just end it sooner before you feel like you can't because your too comfortable.
I used to be involved with a Claire, who I often referred to as Miss Claire (either that or Claire-bear) and every time I see your username pop up, I'm reminded of her. In a good way, because she was lovely, as is every Claire I've ever met. It's just kind of strange to see it with a random MissClaire. I keep thinking you are her.