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Ive looked at pictures, watched videos, however I still cant find my own. Ive even looked in the mirror, I know its there, because I can feel it when i get turned on, but once I rub down there the feeling goes away. (~.~)
The clitoris is small (for some) It depends on a multitude of things, but when you're not aroused; it's soft and almost a pea-size pancake (no laughing) Once you have aroused yourself, it should be hard and prominent. However, if this goes away even while aroused -- you're not aroused "enough" and just simply have a low libido. Try watching, or imagining, various sex scenarios, even "dirty talk" to yourself and find what really makes you tick.
Porn and the imagination/implementation of multiple sex scenarios, when masurtbating, really are the best way to find your niche sexually.
It's there, you just need to make the body-mind connection. For a lot of girls, it's much harder to instantly "get into" and stay into, what you're doing sexually. Masturbation is the best method, but you have to be free of distraction, shame/embarrassment of any kind. If you feel "silly" or second-guess yourself, you'll lose it. Stay on track -- and your clitoris.
As a man i can tell you that i think its somewhere in the arm pit, try tickling there
Well, if you feel around down there you'll find two things: A bump and a hole. Hint: It's not the hole.