Is it normal that im 18 and have no urge to go out and no girls like me

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yea so i have no urg to go out and talk to my friends and no girls seem to like me in this area i have talked to girls online and i have quite a few that like me online but they are all over seas or hours away i dont understand this i dont pick up on any girls around here that like me or arent into the whole clubbing scene its making life confusing lol

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I'm not going to insult your bad spelling, I'll just say how you came across in this post. To me it sounds like you're trying way too hard to be cool. I'm not saying this to be mean, just as a heads up. If you're not trying then I apologize. The best advice I have is to stop thinking about what others think, some girl will come along one day, but she'll want the real you, not the one who tries way too hard to impress people.

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    • feelinlost
      10 years ago

      considering people think the opposite in rl i think your a bit off its prob my spelling

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  • Holzman67
    10 years ago

    gee, you're still young in the scheme of things. I'm alot older than you and I have spent the majority of my life single. You adapt. I enjoy the personal freedom. I've never tried to force anything. I think if you feel like you're lacking something, that the opposite sex owes you something, then you're gonna run aground. You gotta can that way of thinking, that's not gonna help you whatsoever.

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  • DADNSCAL
    10 years ago

    First of all, you're not alone; there's millions of boys like you. Secondly, trying to "pick up" a girl sounds like you're at the market shopping , and they're probably getting turned off by it. Be yourself, have fun, and it'll happen. I also hope you're well groomed: clean clothes and hair, fingernails cut and clean.

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    • broken_angel
      10 years ago

      yepp most girls dont want a guy who isnt dressed well or anything

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You are only 18 years old. You've got plenty of time ahead of you to worry about things. Just be yourself and do what you enjoy.

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  • starie
    10 years ago

    Stop trying to get girls to like you that way. Talk to people normally, without trying. If you're yourself then you'll make new connections with people. Sooner or later you'll make a true connection with someone who'll like you that way and will like you for you.

    (unless you're a nutjob lol)

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  • broken_angel
    10 years ago

    aww. well that must suckk. you'll eventually find the right person.

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  • KaffeInjection
    10 years ago

    Have you ever tried beer?

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    • feelinlost
      10 years ago

      used to drink alot but i dont anymore

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      • KaffeInjection
        10 years ago

        Well.. Drin alot is just not healthy.. But drinking one in awhile, or keeping it to a couple of "Beers" in the weekends is fine...

        Do that.... It really helps you to, keep... The thoughts away.

        Allthough, i cannot quite relate.. I've noticed quite a bunch of girls have laid eyes on me.. I just never do anything about it, it's almost as if i'm "Holy" or something, or too special.. Perhaps girl just don't know what to say to a weird pal like me lol

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