Is it normal that i would really love to be a pen pals with a gorgeous girl

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I have always wanted to have a pen pal/email type relationship with a gorgeous girl. I dont know something about the anonymity an the ability to not be judged would be great. I live in a small town an I made some mistakes in my teens with drugs and the reputation has followed me ever since. I am 23 an live in the upper midwest an have been sober three years but it is so taboo here that I have never been looked at the same since. I just want a beautiful girl that wont judge me an that I can be absolutely open with would be great! I guess I also have always had the desire to talk to complete strangers just to get to know them... I am wondering if this is normal because I feel stupid sometimes like I should just man up an find a girl near me or something

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  • LittleGirlTorturedAndSodomized
    8 years ago

    "I should just man up an find a girl near me or something"

    Look for one in a library is your best bet.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Why in the world would it matter if she was butt ugly or incredibly beautiful if she was a pen pal? That's just about the shallowest thing anybody has posted on IIN since I've been here.
    You don't seem to have learned anything from your 'mistakes'.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Well I apologize what I was trying to say with the beautiful part is that it really doesnt matter if they are gorgeous or beautiful in a physical sense, I mean to be honest I am a guy an that would be a bonus, but that there is so much more to beauty such as personality and things on the inside. That is what I find truly beautiful in a girl I guess I should have elaborated my sincere apologies. I guess I wasnt looking to be judged on what my definition of gorgeous is but rather if its okay to want a situation like such in the first place. I didnt mean to seem like a heartless idiot an next time I know to go into more detail

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  • Happy_Yet_Sad
    7 years ago

    I feel that way sometimes too, but I want a guy pen pal. Have you found one? Just curious.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago

    Well I am not trying to advertise I guess it comes down to im looking to see if it is healthy to want someone at a great distance to bond with an possibly start a relationship but whatever happens happens I mean if all I got was a friend that is one more then I have now! I am young I have money an the ability to relocate if I did find the right girl. I just dont see why I should limit myself to the very short list of girls in my area that already have a bad opinion of me and they dont know a thing about me. When I could start writing/emailing any prospective girl in the country an progress to more personal forms of communication as time goes... Oh an I am not talking about dating websites either because women on those judge you like judging a book by its cover before actually getting to know it by reading it an finding out what it truly brings to the table. I hate that its a big pet peeve you read a girls profile an you match absolutely amazingly but she wont give you the time of day because you dont show your ab's in your picture.. trust me ive proved this theory whith identical profiles with different pictures, my shirtless one got ten times the replies an I think it is wrong on so many levels

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    • jr__
      8 years ago

      That makes sense

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  • jr__
    8 years ago

    It pays to advertise, so good luck

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    There are plenty of websites for that.

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