Is it normal that i will always probably choose certain friends over my bf?

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In the way that I would make an important friend (if they are) a priority over a future boyfriend. is it normal that I probably will always prioritise a friend over a bf, I just feel that I care more about having friends than I do an actual relationship. I think some girls out there feel the same way. I am sick of girls always "prioritising" their bf over me. I am a girl seeking a best friend who feels the same way. I have seen it sometimes in movies or a TV serious where the besties stick together and make each other equally important despite having a boyfriend. Are many girls like this or is it just me!?

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Based on 11 votes (8 yes)
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  • PinkHairedFreak
    8 years ago

    Often when a girl just gets a new boyfriend they get really wrapped up in each other for awhile, usually for around 1-3 months. They usually aren't trying to hurt you on purpose. They'll come back around eventually.

    And it is difficult to make them to equally prioritize two different people that they have two different relationships with.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    8 years ago

    Mates before dates.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    What Jack sparrow said.

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  • FEMALEVOMITBLOWJOB
    8 years ago

    It's called female hypergamy.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I would think most people would "prioritize" their gf/bf because there's a big difference between the amount of affection one gives friends and one gives lovers.
    Your post sounds like sour grapes in that your 'friend' has someone and you don't.
    Any true friend would be overjoyed that their friend had found someone special, instead of acting like a pouting child. In my book, that makes you a shitty friend, not worth 'prioritizing' at all.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Just because they're different "types" of relationships, they're still relationships and should be treated equally as important. A lot of people already have a best friend first, and its even more unfair if they completely favourtise the new relationship. I'm one of the bestest friends you could come across. You dont know me and just because I value a friend more than a relationship, certainly doesn't make me a shitty friend. So old sailor, yet again another shitty comment from you. I'm tired of you're judgemental comments on my posts , so please stop commenting on posts if you're going to be judgemental

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        I judge you by what you post. And in this case, I judge you a shitty friend.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Judge all ya want pal but it goes in one ear and out the other because not only is it false but making an accusation of such is pitifull as you don't even know me. Plus majority off your comments indicate you are really just a grumpy old man.

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            grump, grump, grump, but you are still a shitty friend.
            A real friend would be happy for a friend if that friend was happy, not a jealous, selfish little shit, like you!

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              Nope you're just grumpy so you have a cynical outlook on life or especially on IIN posts. Im a great friend!! If you asked everyone of them, I have no doubt that they would have nothing but good to say about me ☺ I don't have to be happy for anyone. Happiness is not a "relationship"! Happiness can be found in a lot of diverse activities, you're just narrow minded.

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