Is it normal that i went this far to protect my sister?

I'm a 20F college student. When I was 16 (and my sister was 18) we both went to a party where somebody brought alcohol and we both got tipsy. She thought she was good to drive by the end of the night, so we didn't think about calling anyone. We should have. We were almost in the clear, but she missed our driveway and instead turned her car into the drainage ditch in front of our house. The front got banged up pretty good. Luckily, our parents weren't home to see it. A neighbor did though and called the police. Before they arrived though, I talked my sister into letting me take the fall for her. I pointed out that this could totally mess up her plans to attend college out-of-state. Plus, she'd have an adult record. She agreed to the switch.

I ended up spending a week of my summer vacation in juvenile hall. Plus, I was on probation afterward with lots of community service to perform. Mom and dad were mad, of course. They eventually got over it and to date neither of us have ever told them the truth about that night.

I recently confided to a close friend what really happened. She seemed to think I was nuts for doing what I did. I know most people wouldn't be willing to go through all that to protect a sibling, but is it really that crazy? She definitely learned her lesson without the legal trouble. I was able to have my record sealed at 18, so it's never really affected my life. The two of us, who were always close, were even closer afterward. I've always thought it was for the best that I got the charge. What do you think?

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  • It's normal. It takes courage to take the blame.

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  • Ellenna

    Your sister is really lucky to have a brother like you - I think you're wonderful

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    • Shackleford96

      They are both female I think?

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      • Ellenna

        Oh yeah, maybe - well lucky to such a great sibling then

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        • Shackleford96

          Agreed.

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  • Lariii

    I think you shouldn't have offered to take the blame, you both shouldn't have taken a car, or she shouldn't have driven. But, I can understand why you did it.

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  • handsignals

    Fake story! If the accident happened on private property the law does not apply.

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    • Ellenna

      He said the car went into the drainage ditch in front of the property - that's not private property is it?

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      • handsignals

        He said in front of the 'house' not property.

        Can the OP please confirm if the car was within the boundries of the property?

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        • Foxface7

          Well, I'm a she not a he. But anyway, no we weren't technically on our parents property, but it wouldn't have mattered. DWI laws apply whether you're driving on a public street or on your own property.

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          • handsignals

            Wrong! Road laws do not apply on private property, if you want to get drunk and drive around your own property you have the freedom to do so.

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            • Foxface7

              Not in Louisiana you don't. Or a number of other states. Google it for yourself.

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