Is it normal that i want to stop myself getting too attached to people?
I just want to stop caring. I pretend I don't but I don't think I've ever cared more about certain people in my life. I feel like caring = loss = pain.
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I just want to stop caring. I pretend I don't but I don't think I've ever cared more about certain people in my life. I feel like caring = loss = pain.
I think its sweet u care so much about ppl n dnt think u shud stop being that.
I've been there... Feeling pain is a part of life. Part of who I am. You cant 'not care'. Your brain is wired socially. Attaching is part of socailization.
I sometimes wish I was the opposite I don't care about much of anything.
There is logical to that, and I can honestly say that over these past few days the thought has appealed to me and more each day.
Hmm, well if you find out a way of sustaining such a notion, let me know!
Has remaining closed off crossed your head? I mean like not telling people personal stuff about you?
I'm very reticent as it is. Perhaps it's counteractive, as I often crave to be understood.
You're preaching to the choir with that last line. Honestly if you're already that emotionally closed off, then I think just following the path you're in now will get you where you want to be. If you're emotionally closed off already then I think just doing that will make you not connect with anybody.