Is it normal that i want to hurt my boyfriend but i don't?

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I often get these urges to physically hurt my boyfriend. Not in the 'im gonna punch you' sense but more in the 'whip you until you bleed' sense. I know that this is abuse if I act upon it but the thought of whipping him against his will while listening to his muffled screams from pain and fear as his blood stain the carpet is a major turn on for me. I love him to pieces but I fear for his safety. What do I do?

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Based on 18 votes (5 yes)
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  • Redcoats
    8 years ago

    I normally have to pay good money for things like that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I want to think thats sarcasm but I don't know.

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  • BobbyTheBear
    8 years ago

    freak.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      :c

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      • BobbyTheBear
        8 years ago

        Sorry i ment "freaky" as in kinky...... But your still a freak.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          :P

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          • BobbyTheBear
            8 years ago

            ^_^

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  • thegypsyysailor
    8 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with a woman hitting a man, it's the other way round that I've got a problem with. Just don't go overboard.

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    • regisphilbin
      8 years ago

      you're a feminist and sexist

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      • thegypsyysailor
        8 years ago

        I'm not a feminist, moron. Feminists believe in equal rights for the sexes.

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        • regisphilbin
          8 years ago

          feminism is a corrupted word these days, maybe originally it meant gender equality, but it's been twisted to become something along the lines of female superiority and entitlement. and any man who subscribes to that bs ideology is a spineless idiot at best, or a pussy at worst.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago

            amen to that!

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    I wish my girlfriend would do that.

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    • R19
      8 years ago

      Bleeding and being whipped is not fun, perhaps the reason it was torture or punishment.

      I'm sure the Poll Creator can redirect that aggression of hers into other acts.

      Have you tried doing other things more aggressively in exchange of whipping and making him bleed?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I'm glad my wife doesn't do that.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      I'm in total agreement on this one, Popeye.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    When these urges happen, are you on your period by chance?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Hell no

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      • theseeker
        8 years ago

        You love him, but wanna watch him suffer? You are psycho. I'm not sure what you can do, but obviously don't do it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    See a therapist if you're afraid you're going to harm another person against his will.

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