Is it normal that i want to die because nobody wants to date me?

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Well I'm a gay dude and no guys want to date me. Well, no local guys who I like and find attractive, and I'm not even that picky. I really don't want to do a long-distance relationship, those rarely work out. I'm very depressed because I feel that no decent guy will ever want to be with me. I don't find myself unattractive or undateable, I don't see why others guys won't talk to me. I just don't want to live a lonely life. To someone who values a relationship and companionship, that's not a life worth living at all. I know I'm only 22 and people will say I have the rest of my life ahead of me. But I'll only get ugly as I age. Only chance I may have is if I move far away and that may never happen and if it does, there's still a very slim chance of finding a guy who likes me.

I have had past relationships but they all broke up with me. It wasn't too bad but my last break-up was the worst thing that ever happened to me. I loved everything about him and he just left me and didn't even feel sorry about it. I just think I'll be miserable now.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    What's your hurry? It's not like you have a biological clock that's ticking away. I went 19 YEARS between my last two relationships and the one I'm in now was worth every bit of the wait.
    Loneliness may suck, but it beats the shit out of not being around when that special person does enter your life.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    You do know that if you had a relationship, half the time it would suck just as bad (or worse) as your loneliness now, right?

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  • Springfurmich
    8 years ago

    masturbate your worries away, kiddo.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    Mate life is so much more than about being in a relationship.

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  • LuxM4G
    8 years ago

    Well, why don't you try to abstain from relationships for a while. You know what to do once your ready, basically making yourself more desirable and approachable. Until then, stay strong, you have a whole life ahead of you and it's a shame you can't see that now but you will.

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