Is it normal that i want the girl i love to break up with her boyfriend?

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Well, i met this girl in my old school, like 1,5 years ago and I got a crush on her almost at the same time i met her. We started hanging out and i got really close to her. At first, I couldn't notice i was in love with her, because I was really enjoying the fact that i could be with her everyday, but suddenly one of our friends(one of my best friends) started dating her. It was like BAAANG. I got really upset after that, but i had to pretend I was happy for her (and I admit that i have done that well, since nobody noticed how bad i felt).It all happened in 2011. A few months after, i changed for another school, and GOD how I missed her. I missed her smiles, her hair, her voice, but there's nothing I can do, since she is still in a relationship my friend and they are really happy together.

So the question is: Is it normal that I want her to break up with her boyfriend, even when they are happy together and love each other, so that I can make a mature approach and tell her my real feelings?

please help me out guys, tell me your stories, and sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    You really need to move on. I know that's not always easy, but this doesn't seem healthy. Besides, what makes you think she'd be interested in dating you if she did?

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    I even feel that way with celebrities. Even though I have no realistic chance to be with a female actress or model, I still feel obligated for her to be single before I seriously start fantasizing about her, otherwise it just feels wrong.

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  • IDiGAFi
    11 years ago

    It's only natural.

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  • brazillianguy
    11 years ago

    Thanks everyone for the help! I'm really trying to move on... I guess I'll find someone I love and I won't waste the opportunity again!

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I bet you learned something from this experience int he very least.. Next time you like someone, go for it!!

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  • mayjay
    11 years ago

    Yes it is normal to want the person you love to be with you and no one else. I would tell this girl how you feel about her. If she feels the same great. If she doesn't move on.

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  • NEKKIJ
    11 years ago

    i dnt think its wrong to feel dis way...bt im pretty sure u can find sumone who wants u just as much

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  • azertyderp
    11 years ago

    its normal because of our primitive geneology of finding that one person and being competitive about it but i do understand that feeling. and if you have that too long, it will bother you too much. chill. there are plenty of fish in da see so keep looking.

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