Is it normal that i want *something* to happen so i can comfort someone?

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I don't (NEVER) want anything to happen to people that I love or like, but sometimes I imagine something tragic happening to that person and I'm there for them to lay there head on my shoulder or hug them against my chest (NOT sexually, but more maternally) and cry them it out and I comfort them. Usually I imagine this with guys I like. Wow, I am so weird -__-u. I feel a little selfish for fantasizing about this.

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  • amigoing
    12 years ago

    Try looking up hurt/comfort fanfiction... its all about this. :)

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    As long as you don't actually want something to happen to your loved ones, it's ok. It's actually quite sweet to want to comfort someone. The drummer from a band I like (who I sorta have a crush on) recently hurt his knee. I feel like I should give him a hug or tell him something comforting :(

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    • KokoroComplex
      12 years ago

      I don't know why, but it's mainly crushes that I want to comfort. I don't want anything to happen to them (some shithead on here is trying to convince me that I do. (uh, I think I know what I said, bitch)- sorry, getting sidetracked). I went to church with my friend the day before she left for Air Force, and after service, I saw her crying and my first reaction was to go to her and hug her. She's done the same with me the week before because I was crying at her going away party... and the day after that... I just hugged her and started crying, too. Even when I didn't know why she was crying.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I get what you mean. IF something bad happened you'd want to be there for them. Normal.

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    • KokoroComplex
      12 years ago

      THANK YOU! That's exactly what I meant!

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