Is it normal that i want my next partner to spank me

I am beginning to think about the qualities I want in my next partner. It's hard to necessarily put into words since I am afraid that I will find someone who embodies "be careful what you wish for" and takes these ideas to an uncomfortable extreme.

I want a man who makes me feel beautiful, strong, intelligent and that he is grateful that we are building a life together. I also want him to be clear and direct about his needs and how he wants our life to run. I want something that is a little old fashioned. I am his mate, not his boss. I follow his lead. I am not a slave nor am I treated as such. We respect each other. However, because I respect him and pledge to be his, I want to know what his rules and standards are. I want to know that if I misbehave and step out of line, he will love me enough to correct me. It cannot be arbitrary or random. That our relationship is a priority. It's not easy to be consistent or to discipline with love and maturity.

Are there any MEN out there that aren't taken?