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I’m really attracted to violent/misogynistic guys and I’m turned on by the thought of them abusing me. I like the thought of a guy taking complete control over me and having the power to kill me if he wanted to. I also fantasise about being strangled or having my throat slit during sex.
Whenever I hear: chicks say they want an abusive boyfriend and guys who say they want a yandere girlfriend, they usually regret getting what they want.
Not super rare, but it is super extremely fucking dangerous. Please never do any strangling, throat slicing or death threats just to get aroused. When your dead, you won't be like man, that was quite an orgasm!
Here is the deal. Fetishes are great and can be very weird and gross, but life threatening is not a road to go down. You must never sacrifice sanity for getting off. Do what you can safely, but define your boundries. And strangling, throat slitting and death threats should ALWAYS be beyond the boudry. My recommendation is try bondage. But please never do any of those other three things!
Please don't actually do this. Role-playing it could be fun if you find someone who's down. I had an "abusive" partner once who would do all kinds of horrible shit to me, like piss in my face and literally punch me or strangle me with a belt until I nearly passed out, but he did it because I wanted it and when I said the safeword he'd stop. It's a lot of fun, just practice it safely.
Roleplaying is fine, but what you've described is setting off red flags. Mental help might be a good idea, you may have an issue with self worth. Good luck.