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I really want a kind of crazy, violent, tense relationship with a guy (I'm a girl). I find insanity such a turn on. I'm also prone to outbursts of complete rage and aggression followed up with violence. I want there to be still deep feelings of love that bring us back together. Is this weird?
You realize that the point of their relationship is that it is abusive towards Harley Quinn, right??
YES YES YES! Perfectly normal. They have the purest type of love in the world.
This is a fetish and there is a name for it but I forgot what it's called. I know a nick name for the fetish is called the Bonny and Clyde Syndrome. I'd say, it's okay to have a fetish, but don't go out looking for guys that can hurt you. That can be very dangerous, and lust isn't worth it.
Oh, I found it. It's called hystbristophilia. Here's wikipedia's definition of it
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hybristophilia
I dont think that is why she loved him though. I think she was secretly kind of off and that was just the thing that brought it out. He gave her something she was missing. "I listen to everyone. He listened to me for a change". She wanted to be acknowledged and Joker was smart enough to play on her vulnerabilities. He probobly made her feel secure in some way or she entertained her.
Just like me. Hnnnngh. Now all that's left is to find men like this who exist. None I know of, you?
although having a very emotional relationship has it's perks... eventually the ongoing drama is just going to tire you out.
It sounds like you just described the kind of relationship that most women that I know are in.
However, unlike those women, instead of complaining that you want someone that will give you a normal relationship and that you can't stand the on again off again drama, you have actually accepted that a relationship is more exciting and fun to you when it is full of action and drama.
For this, I sincerely commend you.