Is it normal that i want a guy who i'm uninterested in to fall in love with me?

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Sometimes there's a guy who I want to be just friends with but still I get jealous if he gives other girls attention. I kind of secretly want them to want me even though I'd never admit it. I would not lead them on or give them false hope or anything, this is kind of a secret wish/thought in my head. Is this normal or weird?

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Sounds quite selfish and egotistical. Yuck.
    :-/

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    • Anime7
      10 years ago

      My thoughts exactly.

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      • ohmypurple
        10 years ago

        Well, perhaps. Although I would never lead anyone on, I suppose it may be a self-esteem thing.

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        • RoseIsabella
          10 years ago

          I think you're spot on about it having to do with self esteem.
          ;-)

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          • Anime7
            10 years ago

            Again my thoughts exactly.

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            • RoseIsabella
              10 years ago

              Thanks!
              :-)

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Come on now class, all together; "power trip". Louder.

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    You're as cold as ice.

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  • youareaghost
    10 years ago

    lots of girls think like that

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  • Derpinism
    10 years ago

    I am having an arousal reading those dirty thoughts

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You say you would never lead anyone on... But wanting someone to want you when you're not interested, is leading someone on. You just want to be wanted and thats fine but as long as you want that person back. Surely it's more of an attention thing?

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    • ohmypurple
      10 years ago

      How is it leading the person on if I am not showing any interest? Assuming they cannot read my mind

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Sorry I misread it completely, there is another post simular but I must have got mixed up. Anyway, yeah it would only be leading them on if you got them thinking you liked them when you didn't. But yeah, you're not doing that so I think you're not doing any harm.

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  • Imsupernormal
    10 years ago

    *sigh* typical stupid woman

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Typical immature comment..

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Lots of people like attention.

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