Is it normal that i want a girlfriend and not want one at the same time?

I'm 20. I've only had one girlfriend in my entire life at 17 and it was a pretty short relationship, but I was extremely devastated when it was over. Sometimes I feel rather down when I see some of my friends with girlfriends, it really makes me want to have that feeling of being loved again. I mean for the past 3 years I've been thinking about the good times I've had with the only girlfriend I had every night before I go to bed. However, the other half of the time I find myself wanting to be single too so I can just fuck all the girls I want, maybe see what it's like to be in a FWB relationship and such. So is it normal that I want a girlfriend and be loved but also not want to have a girlfriend and just fool around all I want? For the record, even if I have the urge to have sex all the time, I would never, EVER cheat once I'm in a relationship.

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Based on 48 votes (40 yes)
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  • azgirl

    I think you should just have fun and enjoy your youth but once you find that special girl, take her serious. Don't be afraid about falling in love again; just go with it.

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