Is it normal that i want a boyfriend but i don't want to have sex with him?

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Im a female & I want a boyfriend to hang out with and stuff but I do not want to have sex with him or anything of that sort.. Kissing and touching is fine, but sex and fellatio are a no no...at least for now..I like to daydream about doing these actions sometimes but when I think of the reality of doing it I'm like, "Naaa, I'll pass on that" & "It's really not worth it".....
*sidenote* I'm a virgin

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Can he at least go down on you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I don't know, I'll probably feel weird about it...

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        10 years ago

        You don't need a bf then, just a good friend.

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        • Anime7
          10 years ago

          That's what I'm saying. You beat me to it.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I'll be honest here I sort of figured that you were a virgin. I think your normal. You want someone to be there for you and comfort you. Pretty much someone to hold and perhaps complete you. If you don't feel like you're ready to have sex, which is totally normal to feel that way, then just don't have sex. Try to communicate with him how you feel and hopefully, most likely, he'll understand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      :) Thanks for the comment.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    You don't HAVE to be ready to have sex to want a boyfriend. Just be straight up honest with him right from the start. Tell him that you don't know when you will be ready and that he must not expect it to even happen.

    Myself I can't live without sex, most likely an addict but that's why I would never get involved with someone like you in the first place, you need to find someone who could wait for you.

    I bet that it would make it easier for him if you could give him hand-jobs at least- To me that's a minor thing.

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