Is it normal that i've been forced to be a listener when i'm a talker?

My whole family are talkers (with the exception of my mother and younger brother) and all of my friends are too and so am I. But I'm the only one who actually listens to everyone else and stops myself from talking to hear what other people have to say. I feel like no one even knows who I really am, like not even my favourite colour? They don't even care to ask about me. I'm just always fucking there for them, but I'm so used to it now I don't even want to talk about myself anymore but I still get upset that no one else wants to listen to me. Is it normal?