Is it normal that i've been dating him for 10 months but i want time to myself?

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I love my boyfriend A TON but we text everyday and I would love to see him everyday if I could, but we text every second of everyday and I sometimes just want to have time to myself. I feel selfish an d also that what I'm feeling is wrong. Has anyone else felt this? Is it normal that I can love him but still wanna be alone sometimes?

We've been dating since October 2010...a long time so I think he loves me too(: please give me your honest thoughts(:

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Based on 38 votes (36 yes)
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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    being with eachother more or less every second of every day is bad for a relationship. you need time apart to do your own things

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    there's nothing wrong with that. just because you're a couple doesn't mean you're attatched. and, I think we all need some alone time now and again no matter what.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    You're only human. Everyone wants some alone time once in a while. Its normal. Tell him how you feel.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    Yeah it's normal, the distance helps you miss each other and when you two do reunite it's a lot more passionate. I know it sounds selfish and scary to ask but honestly if you do it right it's easy and makes the relationship a lot better.

    When I asked my gf I told her how much I love her but i just need some time to myself sometimes and that I don't get much time to start missing her. She completely understood, now I have my personal time and when we see each other it is a whole lot better and more passionate!

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Everyone needs some time alone, I'm sure he does as well. You can't be all over eachother every day, apart from anything else eventually you'll get bored. I say normal.

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