Is it normal that i think that people with "issues" recognize each other?

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Hello. I am a 25 year old man. I have had depression (and some other issues) as long as I have had memory. I am "treated", but I still have recurring depression episodes. In the past I told everyone about my problem, but then I discovered that people distanced from me because of that.

So, the thing is that I have learned through my life how to hide this quite well. I can appear nice and happy, even when I am having a panic attack. However... some few people know that I am just acting. Most of them are people with similar problems. In fact... I do notice when someone else is hiding their issues as well. In fact, I can even pinpoint what kind of problem the person has. I guess that's also because I have read a lot about my own issues.

This just feels like a secret code at some times... like if people with issues were a secret brotherhood or something. Has anyone lived something similar to this?

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Yeah, I think it's normal. Sort of that old takes one to know one adage. I remember feeling awful and dissociative like I was dying inside while I was sitting with some friends and this girl that was our friend but wasn't always with us showed up and immediately noticed I wasn't right that night. The others were clueless but this chick knew right off the bat.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    I also think they seek out each other. If you are a are considered a freak you are probobly not going to be judged by another freak. Since they know how awful it feels and are generally more excepting. Those who are mistreated tend to be a little more humble. Those who have had everything handed to them dont know what suffering feels like. Also there is an old saying "It takes one to know one" and "To catch a criminal you must think like one". So of course they are going to recognize you. They are just like you or very observant.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Would've thought they were to up in their own issues to notice anyone elses.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I think you just know the signs to look for; fake smile, typical "I'm fine" response, because you've spent a part of your life doing these things.

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