Is it normal that i think one person can't love the other forever?

Being "in love" doesn't last for ever but sometimes grows into a lasting love or affectionate companionship. However, I reckon it's very unusual and from my experience and observations most couples (hetero, homosexual or lesbian) who stay together for many years are usually only putting up with each other or are afraid to be alone.

Love for a child or a parent can certainly last as long as both are living, but I don't think that's what you're talking about, is it?

I'm always suspicious of anyone saying they'll love someone "for ever" because there's no way anyone can know that for sure and it's plain ridiculous to promise how you'll feel about anyone for the rest of your life, which is why the wording of most marriage ceremonies is total dishonest bullshit.

I think love changes over time and what was once a burning passion becomes more familual sp?

I kind of look forward to the next stage in my relationship, where it becomes deeper and not just about lust. Although the sex is awesome right now lol.

True love stays forever.

I'd argue that many couples who say "I love you" don't truly love each other.

I've found it curious that a person can easily love and care for his best friend, and family for his entire life. But when it comes to romance and marriage, there the friction is worst.

You have to work at a marriage more than any other kind of relationship. Living together and being obligated to each other, resentment and frustration easily builds.

The passion of falling in love that couples feel for the first few years often fades into a disappointing humdrum.

Perhaps they'll begin to think things like, "This person isn't all that amazing," "She/he is so won't stop nagging me over every little thing," "Those habits are annoying," "Why did I marry her/him again?"

People don't need marriage anymore, so they often give up. In general, I wouldn't say marriage is an institution conducive to happiness.

It sometimes becomes something people just cling to, because they're afraid of loneliness. Too many people get married because it's just what people do- a sad bandwagon.

Nothing lasts forever even love