Is it normal that i think my gf abuses me?

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So the other day i came hone late from School (as a grad student) and my gf was pissed as fuck. She kept rambling on about how i was late because i fucked another girl, which was not true at all. Long story short, dhe ended up punching me in the face so hard that i hit my head on the corner of the wall and fell unconcious...
When i awoke, i was tied to our bed and she was suckin away at my dick. I kept telling her to stop but she insisted that liked it when other girls sucked on me (which is not true considering ive never cheated on her). I kept trying to tell her to stop but she got tired of my pleas and put a ball gag in my mouth to shut me up. From there she proceded to have rough anal sex about 2 or three times ignoring the fact that i didnt want any of it.. When she had enough of it she just left me there still tied to the bed.
The next morning when i woke, she acted like nothing happened the night before and made me breakfast in bed and was all sweet and kind.

I want to get away from her (as in tell the police or just leave, anything i guess) but im afraid that society will not axcept the fact that SHE is the one abusing me and not the other way around. Is this a normal fear or should i just be a man and accept it and enjoy her sex?

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago | pl

    Just leave her. Doesn't matter what gender the person is, if they physically abuse and force you then you should ditch them.

    If you want to press charges against her you should probably research what happens if you do that. If you're ready to face what may happen then go ahead and do it.

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    • reminiscent
      9 years ago

      This

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    9 years ago

    I think that she likes bdsm and she is a the sadist. If you are masochist then you ought to enjoy it rather than complaining about that innocent girl.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    Anyone suffering abuse should get away as soon as possible. Abuse is terrible and no abuse victim finds it easy to "come out" as abused, but the threat of non-acceptance and repercussions for the abused person is what enables abusers. You don't have to tell anyone until you want to - you don't owe anyone an explanation.

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  • anti-hero
    9 years ago

    You don't write like a grad student.

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    • shorty295
      9 years ago

      Id have to agree with you on that one

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      Indeed, he doesn't.
      *In Chester the Cheetah voice*

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        9 years ago

        Does it matter whether or not that i do

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        • RoseIsabella
          9 years ago

          I dunno, but if you're serious just dump the harpy bitch.

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  • MenschMaschine
    9 years ago

    Are some of you crazy? She punched him and knocked him out, then when he woke up was tied to a bed and used as a sex slave! Mate your GF has serious problems and should theoretically be reported. You are being raped.

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  • modernism
    9 years ago

    Leave.

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  • noid
    9 years ago

    Leave her for good.

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  • Freedom_
    9 years ago

    Have you two ever discussed your sexual preferences, and whether or not she is a masochist? Have you perhaps given her the impression that you enjoy being dominated? She could be abusive, or she could just be enjoying herself in hopes that this behavior pleases you. Communication could be key.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    I dated a girl like that. She tied me to the bed while I was passed out drunk. Cam home late the night before. Woke up to her gagging on my dick. But I just flexed as hard as I could and broke the head off the bed frame to get away lol. I like being woken up like that, just not restrained without my knowledge. That really bothered me. And DONT report it. Unless u have video proof or a witness then ur just making a huge stink over nothing. They won't even attempt to prosecute without evidence. All u have is hear say and circumstantial bs. But yeah, get far far away from her. That's the kind of girl that will take a cigar cutter to ur dick for not answering ur phone.

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